Spying on your other half?

[Computerbud]

Does anyone know how you can monitor/log mobile phone communications? I think my girl is cheating on me and I need to find out!

I've seen some software called Flexispy which logs all text messages going out and coming in....but it not compatible with my girlfriends phone and it's not cheap either...

If anyone knows any hacker or someone that could hook me up with a Java trojan then that would be ace!

[vehelpfulguy]

Checking up on her like this is not the way to go about it.

Best just to ask her outright. If someone is cheating they can rarely hide it.

Maybe she is organizing a secret party for you ?

[Computerbud]

No, I think spying on her is the only way!

Trust me, she can lie for England!

[Cockney_si]

Unfortunately once one person suspects the other of cheating this leads to lots of doubts.

Been there/got the T shirt, was right and she dumped me so tread carefully on ways to approach and deal with your fears.

Good luck.

[Computerbud]

Cheers Si, thats why I want to tread carefully by not letting her think I know.

[Ethel]

If she is that sort who is prepared to lie and cheat, finish with her.

You do'nt trust her - it's not worth carrying it on.

[BillyNoMates]

It would of course be illegal for you to 'spy' in this way without the other person's permission.

[markja]

if you join MI5 they will be able to sign all the kit you need out of their stores dept. the down side to this is if she finds out about your new job you'll have to kill her! then you won't have a gf to spy on.

try asking her. if she lies or you don't trust her the relationship isn't worth a damn.

[Smallvilleck]

tbh computerbud.. it seems as if u dnt trust her... so y u with her.....????

maybe u should finish it instead of spying (this is only my opinion)