why women always seem run away from sex?

[fem lover]

why we always notice that men always attracted to women extremly but women seem that they run away from sex and dislike it? it is a simple question but i really dont find an answer for it so please any one have the answer?

for example men look at women because god creat us that way "attracted to female" but women dont look at mken and maybe turn away her face if she see a man .......some people say that women are not visual and cant be excited visually. but they excited by touching , but for example if a woman touch a man for example in a bus or tram he cant catch himself and feel like electricity , but if a man touch a woman in the same situation she get away from him "not attraction"and maybe insult him and get angry

some people say that women are not visual or physical , they are emotional , but we men also are emotional , and maybe more than women, we love very strong we pay our life,our time,our money ,and sometimes die for the woman we love but women emotionality and romance is to be loved more than love, we men who give flowers , gifts, flirt, worship , we who kiss hands and feet , we who make poems,......but women be happy to recieve these from a man more than giving

so please any one tell me why women hate men and why they always run away from the other sex although they say that opposites attract ?

[dot.hawkes]

Que?

[boobesque]

er, i like men, i dont run from the opposite sex and i like sex with my partner, hence the baby i am growing! What you have written is a huge generalisation that simply isnt true of many women, many women i know, myself included will often buy gifts, worship and and romance their men as much as they do us, in fact this is the first relationship where i have had a man that does these things as well!

[Morrisonker]

What on earth are you babbling about? Women do not hate men, what a horrible generalisation to make. You could just as easily ask why all men seem unable to stop themselves sleeping with any girl that offers it to them? Not all men cheat and not all women 'run away from the opppsite sex'.

[daftpixie]

I like men too, and in my group of friends we are all love sex, enjoy the company of men, and do not follow the dated sterotype you have described. I buy presents for my partner, I massage his back, feet etc, and whilst I have strong emotions for him, out attraction started as physical! Also, agreeing with boobesque, it is rare that a man will be romantic! Id be interested to know where you are from fem lover, and the sort of women you come across because I have never met any woman that is the way you describe!

[dot.hawkes]

ruskie stuff me thinks, i am off to tescos to talk to the cabbages. Catch u later lol

[wonderwoman1]

i am totally confused(not difficult i know!), at first i thought there was some kind of russian tinge to this q and then it seems its a bloke writing it...weird?

well to answer this strange question, i certainly dont hate men, never have!!

[JustSia]

Perhaps it's just you?!

S.

[daftpixie]

Dot.hawkes, you really make me chuckle! Some of your posts have had me roaring laughing! Say hello to the cabbages from me!

[fem lover]

i dont mean that woman hates man , but what i mean why woman's behavior is usually is running from the opposite sex and it seem as it is go away not attraction not like man he attract to the opposite sex and it is very clear in his all behaviors

[daftpixie]

maybe JustSia is right, it might be you mate, perhaps you should refrain from touching women on trams!!!!

[n00dles]

Yep, have to agree with dottie, def ruskie undertones.

The same broken English way of expressing him/her/it self. Definately not educated English by any means, same M.O. as the one from Red Square.

[boobesque]

definitly sounds like its just you, maybe something about you puts women off, some men think they should have women chasing them when they have a face only a mother could love

[fem lover]

but it is not my opinion it is the opinion of science nad scientists

*women are far less visual stimulated than men

*women have less desire than men

*women have lower interesting in sex than men

*women have lower level of teststseron " the hormon of desire"

* women have wet dreams less than men

* women interest in children after getting them more than the relationship with husband

* women havent fetishes but men have alot

* women can bear havent sex for long times maybe years but man cant

* some sexologyies say that sex to man is like air and water cant live without it but to woman is like chokolate just fun but she can live without it and maybe dont think about it at all and not feel that she need it

if i am not right why there is sexy clothes for women but not men? why most porno is produced for men not women? why in movies always actresses get naked sometimes and have posters but men actors dont do?

why there are naked pictures for nicole kidman but there is no for tom cruise for example , isnt that mean that men are interest about seeing her but women arenot interest about seeing him... that is just example

[daftpixie]

you wolly fem lover! cencorship law states that you cant show full frontal of a man with erect penis etc, also you should read scarlet mate, it is written for women and is totally focused on sex! Beleive me, women watch porn, and enjoy it, alot! You write like you have done research into this but you have a completely one sided view, if you truly lookied into this you would see that women also have fetishes, if we are less visually stimulated than men, why do so many women buy magazines focused on what we look like, and what other women look like?!! And wet dreams are a male thing because of biology! it doesnt mean we dont dream about sex! Go away and read Nancy Friday you silly boy!

[Pippa68]

I'm with dotty & the cabbages....this is going into the nominations for daftest question of the week ~ and it's only Monday!

[boobesque]

oh my god, just because scientists say these things doesnt mean it accounts for ALL women, and anyway i would bet thats a pretty outdated study anyway as women are becoming more sexually agressive and have more interest in initiating sex, having sex toys, watching porn etc, some men are scared of modern women!

[dancealot13]

Women probably run away from you because you're a tad scary...

You seem to live a very sheltered life. Watch a little bit of MTV, and you'll see within a quick second that women enjoy sex and passion just as much as men do. We're all human. Don't let being scard by the opposite sex put a rediculous generalisation on all females. You sound very bitter.

[powyco]

It isn't sex which makes women run from you. It's your torturing of the English language.

[ermintrude35]

...I think you are just unlucky with the women you have met...

[chiswickk]

in all the time that i have been a member of AB this is the most senseless and ditsy question i have come across. this takes the cake.

regardless if you are male or female something is wrong with you, hence the reason why you find women don't want to have sex with you. you could not be speaking for all the men or women. generally all men straight or gay love sex, a gay woman i believe would wan to get it on with her female parthner, however they do it. i don't see you making sense.

if you are female how can you know the magnitude of a man's sexual desire? if you don't like having sex or don't want sex then the problem lies within you. don't blame all women!