Just been sitting here having a grizzle reading through all the positive, dedicated posts.
Evorg - Before my Dad died in 1994, he & some of my brothers visited my Grandad J's grave in leper (Ypres).
When you say 'how unusual for a British soldier to be buried there', it got me thinking. I would hate to think that he isn't actually buried there, but that his headstone is a commemoration of his loss of life. That would really upset me.
However, I intend to visit my Grandad's grave one day, taking along with me a photo of him in his uniform & a photo of the wife & young children he left behind - it's something I've always wanted to do.
I'm not sure which Cemetery he's buried in, but will phone my brother to find out -be back later......