After reading others, here's my simular problem

[harry202]

After reading some of the other posts on here from befrank, yoshimoto and others
I thought I might as well get some advice about mine:

My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for about 7 months, earlier this week we had a major argument whilst parked in her car.
After about 20mins id had enough and just let out a scream noise as if it to say, enough
Is enough, but no actual words.
Before I knew it my girlfriend, was saying that were over and that she cant be with anyone like me etc, and she called the whole relationship off.

Basically ive been trying all I can to get her back since, but she refuses to see me and just keeps saying that she cant trust me and is afraid of her safety around me. This is all a little worrying esp. as I would never lay a finger on her or ever harm a hair on her head.

But we have at least been talking on the phone, which I suppose is better than nothing. But she keeps saying that now she fears for her safety, and that's the reason she cant or wont see me, but she has asked for Christmas to be a break and that she wants the time to think and will be back in touch with me sometime between Christmas and new year.

What do I do next? Do I give her the time?

After talking to people about all of this, they keep saying that they believe that in the past someone might have hit her, and that my screaming might have bought back bad memories.

If this is the case, how do I convince her that I'm not like the guy that did do this to her?
(esp. if she won't see me)

Thanks