just an observation : )
Hi, as i say its just an observation, as i try not to get into these battles! tried to post this earlier but it just disappeared (as if by magic heheh) Anyway, when i joined AB it was fun, about 10 months ago, i think thats cos we are all 'virtual' and not real, so you can be what you want, say what you want(within reason) and imagine other people are what you want. Then once you overstep those boundaries, thats when it all goes pear-shaped, you choose favourites to chat to, and you build up an image, then start swapping emails/msn adresses, and then it becomes REAL... big big mistake, cos then we are real people with names, and families, and jobs, and in the 'real' world we might not like who we THOUGHT the other ABer was?? disappointment sets in, and then information given in past 'chats' gets used as ammunition and it gets nasty! i get on with a few on here, like Athley we share a common ground on a few things, but i wouldnt like her to meet me!! she would probably HATE the real me, so this, i think is where mistakes are made, i am not trying to be the AB police or anything like that, as i said - just an observation, doubt some people here can get back on track after all this, but that seems a shame : ( but keep it (un) real, thanks for reading and .......move on! No lectures please cos i'm not having a go x