YellowMe, everyone has a past, if you split up with him, and meet someone else, he will have a past which will include past relationships, etc. Do you have a past? I bet you do. You cannot live in the past. Remember, "an ex is an ex for a reason." You cannot change the past; but you can plan the future. If you spend too much time worrying and thinking about the past, you will miss all the wonderful things that are happening NOW. There is nothing wrong with telling him you would rather not have him talk about her, particularly in your presence. Men can be insensitive! Photos are photos (its good that he has deleated the rude ones), there is nothing wrong with having memories, we all have them, but remember, if he didn't want to be with you, he wouldn't be. The past is gone, so start planning for today and the future.
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