does it ever concern you ?

[legend758duo]

does it ever concern you the amount of interest that some folk on a website show in other peoples offline lives?
do you find it strange that they show more than a passing interest in things that really arent anything to do with them or the site?
would you call this behaviour bordering on the stalkerish?
or is it the result of a sad and lonely unfulfilled life offline that they spend so much time prying into other folks private lives?

or is it perfectly normal behaviour?

[Lucy Thomas]

Give us some specific examples.

[sally1001]

Nobody has ever shown an interest in my life (sob)
i guess you should feel a bit flattered and also a bit sorry for them

[legend758duo]

thomas lucy how are you this fine day ?


im being nonspecific.

merely asking for an opinion .
yes or no .

what is it kind sir?

[legend758duo]

sally i find the thought rather disturbing.
where does interest stop and infatuation take over?

[whiffey]

I find it very disconcerting even sinister when people reveal details in such a way as to make it plain that they have offline issues with one another. It's just not cricket.

[mccfluff]

not really

hoots mon

[sally1001]

I guess not being a regular onliner i cant really comprehend it. i dont like it when work collegues want to meet you on a saturday- is that comparible?

[legend758duo]

uh uhhu uhuuh im well shook up about it whiffey

it aint rockin roll

as for the others involved who knows their opinion.

all rather sad

till laaters adios x

[B00]

Do you mean babybow's fascination with Elvis and Rosie's MSN convo's and the fact they were the "talk of CS"?

Yes, it was creepy.

[4getmenot]

on here its good to have a little chat, no one has to give out any info if they dont want to and as you know some people on here simply e-mail eachother

[China Doll]

On here it seems to pass as perfectly normal behaviour since so many threads spring up regarding it.

Not entirely sure it's healthy though.

[kp nonuts]

OK so whos got me tv remote then.

[Lucy Thomas]

I agree with you that this is indeed sad behaviour. A good example of this is being obsessed with thinking I'm a man. This is what you may refer to as 'offline' life.

Pot and kettle.

[Yorks lad]

I am with sally on this 1.

it is a bit like ppl you work with wanting to meet outside work .

[cazzz1975]

To be honest, from what I have seen they are more interested in prying into the AB regulars lives so they can tell them to "get a life"

There is no real interest, they just want to make an example of someone that frequents AB more than them.

yes it is sad that they feel the need to do it, not only sad but it also gives us all an insight into them as a person.

[christine847]

Perhaps some people are just trying to be friendly?

[legend758duo]

pot and kettle thomas?

im confused .

i think its possibly their only way to express their pent up emotions??


boo im not sure what youre on about ?

elvis im sure has enough to say im not interested in any sordid details from his past they are of no importance to me at this moment in time i can asssure you :-)

[legend758duo]

cazz what a jolly clever woman you really are :-)

[REDHEAD24]

there are some freaks on here , that follow ur every thread , and relive it in their mind dont worry in case u havvenot noticed legend apparantly im u , at first it annoyed me then i thought hang on jade , i dont know these people from adam why would i care if someone thinks im u , dont worry mate just enjoy the site for what it is

a bit of fun - a escape from reality xx