why are all the goldiggers female

[topogigo]

With the obvious few exceptions, most notable goldiggers are women, boobs and no brains. My friend C, has money, nice chap, wants an honest relationship. He is inundated with women just after his money, he is no oil painting but he is a real good lad. He is so used by them i am really angry about it, lots of them. The women that chase him are ALL users. Thing is, women with money are usually users as well, stroppy bitches some of them. I know i am generalising to some degree, but you must know where i am coming from.
Ladies please don't argue this point merely because you are a woman, be honest about it.

[Keroppe]

thats because we ladies
1) get paid less than the men doing the same job.
2) we clean, we iron, we cook
3) we give birth to your child

lol anyway im no golddigger, i have my own money,most of the guys ive been with are poor, no house no car crap career!
whats the point being someone just for the money??? i couldnt do that! i have to at least like him!

[sense4all]

Maybe he needs to find a new venue to look for a partner ... something a bit more cultural, a bit less footballers wife. There is a lot of social climbing in this area and I have to say I think that the users are half and half to be honest.

[888sally888]

I have to say that I have been out with a few shallow gold digging men in the past so I know how he feels!!

[David H]

Mainly because men are happy enough to get a woman at all (come on, you know it's true) whereas as most women can get men very easily they are greedy and want jam on it. Just human nature sadly, look what they're doing with the price of oil- same principle.

[888sally888]

Nope - I for one am not greedy and hate jam!!

[unhappychick]

Sorry..I dont agree with you, I am a single parent and most of my money goes on bills and the children, I have a bf, we dont live together, and even though half the time I am skint, I would NEVER ever tell him nor would I ask for any money....I have morals and principles!!!!!!

[topogigo]

Good for you Unhappychick, you will be relieved to know that you are not on my hate list. I am obviously aware of the normal women out there that aren't goldiggers, it is the ones that are i am talking about, there are more of them than men.
David H is correct, greed and the power of one over another.

[cazzz1975]

you should also question why men are so shallow only meriting a woman on her looks alone

you reap what you sow...

[sara3]

perhaps he should stop displaying his wealth, or start hiding it a bit better? then he might find a genuine woman who likes him for who he is, and not what he has.
personally I find men who flash too much cash a little vulgar. he needs to concentrate on his good qualities. anything else is a bonus.
and you must know that this scenario isn't limited to women. I've met men who are more interested in what car/house/salary I have than who I am.

[topogigo]

Who does that? I don.t, but if i did it is an instinctive thing. Animals display and ponce about to attract a mate.

[topogigo]

Sara, you don't know Chad, he is as normal as you can get, we never go out with him paying, we always share. He is very understated, i can assure you they come to him. He then gets ensnared, and hurt. He is too nice to deal with them.

[4getmenot]

If the people are same age more seem to be girls as men do get paid more. But there are a few young men that go for older woman because of money

[sara3]

okay, send him over ;o)

[topogigo]

I will if you have got big boobs.
















Just joking!

[sara3]

classic, thank you!

[topogigo]

Sorry Sara, i couldn't resist the temptation.

[sara3]

I know, and you are but a man!

gotta go.. some of us have really well-paid jobs to get to :o)

[topogigo]

Are you sure you are female then?

[sara3]

apparently I drive my v expensive car like a man.. but that's it!

really, really have to go.. have a good one :o)

[redcrx]

"is an instinctive thing. Animals display and ponce about to attract a mate"

i wonder how many wealthy men hide the fact they have money? i would bet a lot (not necesarilly your mate) make it obvious to attract the pretty girls who are purely attracted by money