I am 15 and wonder what girls find attractive....?

[adam084eva]

reli lyk this girl, nd we get on great! we hav great chats nd long msn talks. She knows i lyk her, and i hav tld her several tyms, i no she reli lyks me to get on with, bt doesnt lyk me the way i lyk her. I reli want to win her over and show her just how much i lyk her. i have no idea what girls find the MOST attractive in a guy. Nd would a girl change her mind and be won over if these qualities shone through. I reli, reli lyk her, nd as well as wanting to win her over, i also want to express just how much i lyk her, bt very subtly. And i have no idea how to do this either. We hav great laughs, nd reli get on, but i dont know what i can do to win her over. I have a feelin that if i was to, she would lyk me the same. but what will win a girl over, nd how can i express my lyk for her? bt subtly. any other tips in this region would be greatly appreciated:)

[JK04]

She might like it if you spoke English once in a while...

[sara3]

firstly, I'm old enough to be your mother and text talk drives me NUTS... but I'm sure this is fine with her!

we like a man who makes us feel safe and looked after. listen to what she likes and doesn't like, and maybe suggest doing stuff that you know she would love to do. and have fun!

that'll be a good start ;o)

[Lakitu]

Why do you think you should be subtle about it? You don't know she's not telling her friends how much she likes you but she doesn't think you like her the same. Why don't you just tell her and see how it goes?

[redcrx]

all girls like different things, thats why we dont all fall for just one man in the world. you can only "win her over" if she finds you attractive (in looks or personality), changing either of those would be changing yourself. Be yourself and if she likes you more over time then great, if not then find someone who likes you for who you are

Oh and lose the text speak on here, its not a mobile phone where you have to shorten everything to get it into a 10p message. You may also get more replies if people can be bothered reading the question

[bigmamma]

Hello adam hun , you lost me after the first line , not because I can't read text speak but because it would take too long , I'd forget what the question was .x

[cherrycherry]

buy her some chocolates

[cherrycherry]

skittles would probably do

[pauliwauli2]

Sorry, but you do have to drop the text speak.

I'll give you a strong piece of advice - DO NOT use MSN as your main source of contact. I used to do this with boys I fancied and it got me no where, because it ended up being awkward face to face. Unless of course you're good friends with her. And if you think of something 'winning' to say, DON'T say it over MSN or text, say it to her face.

But yes, just be yourself with her. Chivalry can get you quite far too...

[tinkerbell99]

girls love a boy with confidence so ask hr out somewhere even if its just makky ds and show hr confidence even if u have 2 fake it shel love it pay her compliments like she has really nice eyes or hair or tell her she looks beautiful but dont try 2 kiss her yet ask 2 c her agen n take her somewhere else and treat her like a princess let me know how it goes xxxxxxxxxxx (dont 4get 2 look in2 her eyes not her chest lol)

[Octavius]

The text in your question is inconsistent, containing random dropping of text talk to formal talk and vice versa.

I suspect you are not who you say you are.

Anyway, maybe girls just like boys with a bit of maturity and fun with it.

[fideldyfee]

I agree with pauliwauli2, try to cut down on the MSN and talk more to her in real life. This is also better for you as she gets to see how nice you really are in the flesh. Just be yourself and start by asking her out on a wee date (but dont phrase it like that). Start a conversations, asking her questions and LISTENING to the answers, ask her what shes up to at the weekend and if she fancies going to do BLAH. Or get the chat round to films that are out just now and if theres something she wants to see then agree and say something like, "aw we should go and see that, it would be fun. you free this weekend?" or whatever. and just on a general "what do girls like in boys" note: cleanliness, especially teeth, hair, hands/nails, and clothes, take an interest in stuff she does/likes. I'm sure you'll be fine, and if shes definitely not up for it, then just be her friend and move on.

[Booldawg]

Sorry, but if you're trying to adopt the persona of teenage lad in order to get some pro grooming tips on the internet then I feel you're going a bit over the top on the text speak.

Also your grammar and occasional correct spelling of long words such as 'appreciated' may give away the fact your a 48 year old accountant from Shrewsbury. You may as well have quoted Chaucer half way through it.

[darrellshep]

speak english you freak. if you want to have a lyk get a dog and i am sure he will lyk you all over.

[sir.prize]

. . . and when you get a dog, call it Shep . . .

[adam084eva]

To all the ***** who have told me to start using proper english, because i am apparently unable, shut the f**k up. I am propably more capable than most of you at spelling and grammar despite my age. I am expected A* in english, and have just achieved that in a mock test, which 20% of, was use and spelling of extraordinary grammar. So if you wish to start challenging my capabilities (and my age darrellshep) then first understand what my skills are already. I posted this exact question on yahoo answers, which has a limited number of characters available, therefore giving me no choice but to shorten the words to fit everything in. I moved to this website, as the results on yahoo were poor. Only to find myself, being abused, and insulted about my use of language. Therefore in future please begin to think why this text speak has been used, before throwing insulting comments at me!! :O

[sir.prize]

adam.etc. It is understandable after your Yahoo Answrs experience to try another site for comments relating to your 'problem'. However, firstly, while Yahoo may restrict you to limited characters, AnswerBank is a little more generous. You can type up to 2,000 here in your post. If your question is extremely lengthy,you can snd Part 1, then continue your post as Part 2. Simple eh.

And just a thought regarding your composition - it is really necessary to repeat the word 'like' 9 times? It seems you really have grasped the 'skill' of using extraordinary grammar too.

And finally, it is worth remembering, none of us is right all the time - particularly at 15 years of age.

[darrellshep]

i saw your reply and all i read was blah blah blah, they really must have dumbed down the a-levels this year.