How's your life been?

[CAJ1]

When you look back on your life (no matter how old you are) are you happy with it and your life now?

I've just realised the last 9 years of my life have been a confusing, sad, very hard and trying time. I feel like I'm at the right end of the tunnel standing in the light which seemed so far away at one time. My life is how I want it to be and I can honestly say I feel happier than I ever have.

[puddicat]

i am happy you are in love and it shows,but maybe i am am a pessimist sorry!!!

[luxury]

Thats a really beautiful thing to read CAJ1

There is light at the end of my tunnel too, but it really is the train coming for me lol

L. xxx

[CAJ1]

Definitley in love puddicat, maybe all this time alone has done me good to sort out my thoughts! But I'm not just talking about love, more life in general and how I feel

[stompe]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6Lp4w8wyy0&fea ture=related

Not Bad Summing up!

[CAJ1]

Lol luxury!

[tiggerblue10]

There a lot of things I have missed out on which I now regret. I've never been married or had children. I never wanted it before but now I do.

[cab]

CAJ1 I am pleased that you are now in a good place.
For me alot of ups and alot of downs.
Still not quite there, xx

[sara3]

I'm sure it's not too late, tigger x

[paraffin]

Well don CAJ - Health and peace of mind are things you cannot buy !

Mind you, a few bob on the Lottery might help as well?

[CAJ1]

Not bad at all stompe, plenty of time to live the rest of my life and do it my way as I'm 24!

Well tiggerblue, you never know when you might find someone to marry. Have you thought about adopting?

[cazzz1975]

I have had quite a tough life but I have learned to roll with the punches, at the moment everything is good, there have been very desperate sad times, the bad times can strengthen you and help you appreciate the good times

Im glad you have found some happiness CAJ1

[CAJ1]

Thanks cab, you'll get there, I've been through hell and back and made it!

You're right paraffin the best things in life can't be brought. If you have the winning lottery numbers please let me know them lol!

[CAJ1]

I guess life would be too easy and you wouldn't become a better person if it wasn't for the bad experiences cazzz.

[WhiteBear]

What does Happy actually mean? i dont think i have ever been happy happy about my life.

what makes me smile or happy is to see others are happy and not miserable like me.

I cant see myself happy in the future either, my life's too complicated, but i'll just have to live with it.

[tiggerblue10]

I hope not Sara but when you reach 38 like me you kind of think it is.

I don't really care much about marrying but I still would like to have a baby. I've never really thought about adoption.

[tiggerblue10]

Why do you feel this way WhiteBear?

[puddicat]

hi whitebear know you struggle with depression,you have to get that sorted, its not only you that suffers, and happiness to caj1 and others!!!

[CAJ1]

WhiteBear - Happy to me isn't about smiling or laughing, its about having a feeling inside me that everything is ok, that I have someone to turn to and all the bad stuff and bad memories have been replaced by better ones. I hope you manage to feel happier x

TiggerBlue - 38 isn't old, I thought you were miles older from what you said earlier lol!

[tiggerblue10]

Well I feel old! Lol

[WhiteBear]

tigger,

i dont see any light at the end of the tunnel.

i really cant explain this. Lets just say... no ones life is perfect, but some have better life's than others.