Exes. Have you ever

[hc4361]

bumped into an ex years later and thought, OMG!!! What did I ever see in you?
I have, only once. In my mind's eye she was a princess. In reality she was a bit of a mutt. It was a relief really. Killed off any lingering hankering for what might have been.

[sara3]

I bumped into an ex a few months ago. we had coffee and decided to be "friends".

he couldn't even manage that!

[hc4361]

Did you think he was still attractive, Sara?

[cazzz1975]

I have felt unattracted to an ex yes, not sure why we ever were together!! his personality was much worse than I remember as well

[sara3]

hc, he was always attractive but a bit of a fruitcake.

so he was still attractive....... but still probably a fruitcake!

[ummmm]

Yes...I look at the father of my children and cringe. Not bcause it was a bad break up just that I realised what a knob he was. And he's aged really badly.

I'm in still in touch with all my other ex's so I haven't had the chance to think yuk.

When I say 'all' my other ex's...I'm talking about the ones from school as well :-)

[tiggerblue10]

Yes, and I do wonder what I saw in him. I only started going out with him on the rebound from someone else. Big mistake, I should have know it wasn't going to work.

He came round to pick something up a year after he moved out and I just thought I'm glad we're not together anymore.

[hc4361]

Oh no, ummm. Can't be easy to think of the kids dad like that. Hope I don't bump into any more exes, I want some good memories of a misspent youth.

[hc4361]

Happy ending for you, tigger. Did he still fancy you, do you think?

[NoK]

yes i have , looking back i can not understand what i saw in Kate Moss

[ummmm]

It's ok. They know he's a knob...lol

I just don't speak or think about him. So it's had no effect on them.

[tiggerblue10]

Well I don't think I ever felt real love for him but he often told me he loved me and complained when I never said it to him. I should not have let it get as far as him moving in in the first place.

[hc4361]

It's true about the rose tinted glasses.
And beer goggles.

[tiggerblue10]

Mine was of the beer goggles scenario.

[hc4361]

lol lol

[dot.haukes]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xi5jirNoj3o

[NoK]

what was that sh*te all about dot?

[dot.haukes]

sod orf, that was one of Garth's best, wasted on yourself but who cares lol

[petal54]

i see an ex of mine around quite often,also wonder what saw in him,but we are able to chat prettywell now,as no feelings to get in way

[jackthehat]

I posted this last night...........

An ex of mine turned up once.........
As she sat and talked, I sat and stared at her. The longer she stayed the cockier she got...........she took my staring to be a longing for old flames to be re-kindled (I heard that later from another source).........

..........I was actually thinking, "Crikey, I'd never realised your nose was quite so big..............."

Still seems pertintent, though..............:o)

[joby1]

my ex is a nob......but recently bumped into to my first love......he was lovely...but told me I broke his heart..I was 15 fgs...still made me upset cos i didnt realise... :-(