After I lost my father , my grandfather, my gran, 2 uncles and a friend in the space of ten months a well meaning person told me they understood it was hard but I must trust to God's plan. I can't remember exactly what i said but it was a suggestion of what they could do with their god and his plan!
Life can change in an instant - one sentence from a doctor, one driver that takes his eyes off the road for a second and all the plans you made mean zilch.But I don't think that means you should give it up planning.
I hope for so much for my girls and there is still a long list of stuff I want to do with my husband. I do have a constant nagging fear that it could all be snatched away but I have to let the positive side of me stay in control or my I would waste my life - and theirs - worrying about how it will turn out.
yinyang - good answer, and I totally agree with you. Maybe the quote should be 'Man plans... God has other ideas....'
sqad - it was a man.
craft - you want to floor to swallow you up. (Might as well at that moment in time, because any other possibility of swallowing has gone right out of the window.....)
Not all of them are logic... I do get carried away sometimes I know. I had started this one in all seriousness, with absolutely no smut intended. You should know by now I do have my serious moments.... I just have a 'Lincolnshire Mind'.