teenage boys

[mollykins]

Would they all go round bragging to their friends what they've done with girls, even if the girl in question didn't get that kind of attention from boys at all?

As there are rumours going around about this girl, who I always thought was into other girls, not guys, but apprantly did stuff with this guys who then told his friends who laughed at him cos of who the girl was and spread it round. Knowing her it could esily be true, but are all guys like this, even if it's with an unattractive girl?

Even if they didn't care what they did with who, if it was with someone like her I wouldn't boast about it, not being nasty but you haven't met her. She's a nice person, just not someone I would have thought boys would like in that way.

[mike11111]

Molly, put the kettle on!

[mollykins]

I want sensible answers, I know it's only a rumour but it is actually likely to be true, and she does seem different since it apprantly happened, or it just might be the awkwardness of the rumour.

[mollykins]

I'm just curious to see if all boys are puddings like this one . . . .

[sandyRoe]

Is it you, Molly? Are they gossiping about you?

[pips1]

I think some teenage boys would brag about it whether the girl was fanciable or not, just to make it look like they'd 'done it' even if they hadn't.

[mollykins]

That's what I was thinking pips.

No sandy I still have my dignity . . .

[Old_Geezer]

Everyone is different.
Some idiots tell lies.
Some folk tell the truth.
Some folk are discrete.

Gender doesn't change this, although different expectations make some things more likely in one gender than the other, such as exaggerating or minimising the number of partners, etc.

But this is obvious isn't it ?

[Old_Geezer]

Yes cat out of the bag, it's Molly.
"I have a friend..." :-D

[Eve]

"She's a nice person, just not someone I would have thought boys would like in that way"

Molly that's really not very nice!

[mollykins]

She's a nice person but is really shy and I didn't think she had it in her but desperate times call for desperate measures.

[CuteToni]

"Desperate times call for desperate measures", explain please molly

[Bbbananas]

Yeah - that is a bit of a dramatic statement molly !

[mollykins]

As in she was gagging for it and anyone would do, perhaps. . . .

[CuteToni]

"gagging for it". Seems you are fuelling these rumours and that's not a nice thing to say about your friend molly.

[mollykins]

I haven't told anyone else who would know her, so i'm not really fuelling it, most of you lot probably don't believe me.

[andy-hughes]

If I recall Molly, you are a teenager?

At this time in your life - and the lives of your friends - gossip and rumour are absolutely rife, so you need to adopt a nice simple code.

Believe nothing of what you hear about anyone you know, uinless that person has told you him or herself, and you can trust them to be honest.

That way, you will never be caught on the roundabout of rumour and gossip that surrounds you and your peer group.

If you know this girl well enough, and think you need to know - ask her. If not, simply forget about it and move on - it's not worth thinking about too much.

[mollykins]

Yeah but if it is true, i'm asking if all boys are like that and are puddings.

[mollykins]

Well any boy that's up to that kind of stuff, the ones that are too shy wouldn't tell . . .