Derren Brown in his books completely debunks the ideas of these psychics and in his shows he essentially shows how it's done, it's just reading and suggestion.
The only way you can get what you want out of any situation is to make the play, don't sit around waiting for something just because someone claiming to be psychic told you it would, take the bull by the horns and do all you can to make your situation how you want it to be! If you get stuck and need advice, there's a whole variety of people on here with all kinds of experience. I do hope everything works out in your relationship, but you have to do it for yourself!