had a terrible dream

[rozia]

about my other sister, who i don't speak to. I dreamt that she was was buried alive, and me and my other sister were trying to find where she was to help her, and we are running around, asking this young man what he has done to her, and he wont speak, and we are shaking him about, and eventually he tells us he buried her alive. We eventually find her,and dig her up and she is not breathing and we resuscitate her and she finally breathes, but she is in a bad way?

what does this dream mean?

[owdhamer]

you are watching to much horror on sky

[rozia]

i don't watch horror. I have been really stressed though.

[mickrog]

I dreamed I ate a large marshmellow

When I woke up the pillow had gone.

[China Doll]

I dreamt the man hostage was working for Ash who won masterchef in a place on a tropical island and that I was going for a day out in brighton with Ash's girlfriend who was my new best friend and also the lead singer of the pussey cat dolls... I mainly think I have been watching too much telly.

If anything, it probably means you should try and patch things up with your sister I guess.

[20SilkCut]

Only you truly know what the dream really means?
Think about why you dont speak to her anymore? Are you holding on to any anxieties about this ...... was there a young man involved in the reason for this ? it could be that you are getting older and this is your psyche telling you to make peace with her (the finding and recussitating her....). - only my thoughts on it....... you will have a deeper understanding!

[Maydup]

Sounds like you're being encouraged to "bury the hatchet" and reunite with your sister one way or another. Do you think that could be possible? Via a friend or your other sister maybe? A new year and a new start perhaps.

[jno]

sounds like your subconscious is not entirely happy with you cutting off from your sister. Maybe you're wondering what if she died and you'd never had the chance to make it up.

I'm still working on CD's, but I think it means she's hungry.

[mrsmaveric]

sounds a bit physcological to me maybe deep down you regret not speaking to your sister and it is playing on your mind...and hence the dream,as has been said...why not try to build a few bridges?? life is too short...and when someone is gone its too late and then its a lifetime of what ''ifs'' and ''i should have tried more''

[China Doll]

It was nearly breakfast time jno come to think of it.... You're a genius!

[rozia]

she caused a lot of heart ache, and i always forgave her, but this time she upset my mum and reduced her to tears, mum is very old now and doesn't need the stress....also she caused a lot of trouble for me and turned my brother against me. I'm so angry with her, and hate her for what she has done.

[ummmm]

I don't speak to my older sister either. I had a dream the other night that she'd had two babies that I knew nothing about. 2 little boys...

[jno]

I'd be cross too. It may be you're channelling your mum's fears, then; she may well be conflicted about a bad daughter.

[mickrog]

you probably been listening to Rolf Harris...ummmm

[mrsmaveric]

sounds like there are a lot of issues there rozia...just put it down to a bad dream then if you dont think you can can try and make your peace with her...

[Purple_Popple]

It has been over 5 years since i spoke to my older sister, I miss her, but countless olive branches and she remains a stubborn mare so I gave up. Throughout our growing up it was always me that made the first move to patch things up and im fed up of doing it now so this is the way it will stay, but please patch things up with your other sis, life really is too short Rozia.

[rozia]

i didn't care when she hit me as a kid etc, and even now when she attacked me several times, just for looking better than her, and going out with my friends, i always forgave her, but when she upset my mum, this is where i couldn't let her bully my mum, that's why i cut off with her and told her if she comes anywhere near us, i wont be responsible for my actions.

[rozia]

i get on with my other sis, but this one always had it in for me, and she was 5 years older than me. At times i wish i could top myself, have had so many family issues and unhappiness in my life, that the only reason i am here is because of my kids and mum, i would have long gone by now, im so very unhappy how my life turned out, but dont worry i wont do anything silly now.

[seadogg]

The dream sounds like a deep and abiding frustration as you would have in an impasse with no apparent way out. There is also guilt but that does not necessarily mean you are guilty of anything. The details you can fill in yourself.

There is an ideal sister whom you feel you ought to love and forgive but she is not her, and from what you say may never be.

[jno]

your subconscious obviously has a lot of issues to work through. As seadogg says, the way you'd like your life to be just doesn't match up with the way it is. Stick with the ones who love you and let your dreams deal with the rest; it doesn't sound as if your conscious mind can do much more than you've done already. You might like to see your doctor about therapy (or about sleeping pills if the dreams are keeping you awake). Good luck.

[seadogg]

It might help to bear in mind that dreams can be a form of therapy in themselves.

http://www.nhs.uk/new...painful-memories.aspx