//Men are shown holding important things, like microphones, laptops, tools and even weapons. Women are shown holding babies, cakes, balloons, soft toys and begging bowls. //
Your post echos something of where feminism lost the plot by defining anything typically associated with the male as desirable and all things traditionally associated with the female as burdens.
The absolute rock bottom was their claim that child care was demeaning. That statement has done more damage to our societies than they could ever imagine.
It was done because feminists were out to claim that everything about the lot of the man was wholly fantastic and that of the woman was terrible. They care nothing for objective reality.
You cite "even weapons" as the important things held by men. You forget that countless generations of men endured the life of a soldier because it was expected of them. My uncle committed suicide after his war experiences.
In fact sexism has always worked in both directions. Men had long been denied the opportunity give the primary care to their children because societies expectation of the man as the bread winner. Boys were brought up from a very young age to repress their sensitivity. Much of this influence came from their mothers who wouldn't have dreamed that it was an incredibly sexist way they brought up their children.
Men who didn't fit the stereotype were presumed to be gay. I endured this as I grew up.
Societies as a whole have acknowledged the need to open up the opportunities for women and many men have actively participated in that improvement.
Meanwhile for the men who sought to have the opportunities traditionally afforded to women it has been a lonely struggle against prejudices, many of them perpetrated by women.
Despite their moves into traditional male domains, many women have clung to the notion that they alone are the caring sex by nature. Many women speak of the importance of women in leadership positions citing the "special qualities a woman can bring to the role", in effect denying that a man could possess the types of traits traditionally associated with the female.
They do this because they wish to jealously guard that privilege. Moreover they are afraid to allow men to be sensitive. Most women readily show empathy for another woman but switch off if they encounter a man in the same situation.
Women often pretend that they want men to be more like women but he fact is that many of them fear a loss of identity if men were allowed to be sensitive and vulnerable.
Your "research" as you call it is typical of feminists who start out with something to prove, look for the evidence to back it while ignoring anything that would suggest otherwise. You have made that perfectly clear with your request for examples.
When I was a young adult in the late 1970s feminists told us that those who were not part of the solution were part of the problem. Please be part of the solution and recognise that the emotional emancipation of men still has a long way to go.