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Any Suggestions Why He Makes Exuses?
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So here it is. We met in school, he knew me, but He always was staring at me and afraid of starting convo. He dont have many friends especially girls. after a time we became really good friends, he wasnt so afraid to speak with me. I really liked him and i thought he also felt the same for me. He was giving me those signs. Was nice to me. Couldnt hold his eye contact long. Being close to me sometimes was glancing at me with his corner of eye. Was iniciating convo, but coudnt find good topic or continue convo, due to his shyness. One day he was smiling to me and another he could ignore me or give a poker face.
He knows how i feel for him, since one day i texted him and said straight. I couldnt wait more. But the only his answer was- :3 umm I suggested him to see, he said it would be great, but now is busy and only after week he could. So i said him to write me and he replied that he is shy, but however then he wrote that will try. The point is i dont think so that he was so busy, i know he had time. besides he started ignoring my msg. So i called him and he again found a reason not to meet. I know he wasnt lying to me about excuses, but i just cant understand one thing. If he likes me, why he cant make priorities? Or there are such types of men who are extremely afraid of women? or he treats me only as a friend and dont want to hurt me, but why then he was showing me those signs and gave me hope? I just have feeling that i scared him..
I cant see him face to face and that is a problem. I still dont understand if im rejected or he is not ready.. Any suggestions??
He knows how i feel for him, since one day i texted him and said straight. I couldnt wait more. But the only his answer was- :3 umm I suggested him to see, he said it would be great, but now is busy and only after week he could. So i said him to write me and he replied that he is shy, but however then he wrote that will try. The point is i dont think so that he was so busy, i know he had time. besides he started ignoring my msg. So i called him and he again found a reason not to meet. I know he wasnt lying to me about excuses, but i just cant understand one thing. If he likes me, why he cant make priorities? Or there are such types of men who are extremely afraid of women? or he treats me only as a friend and dont want to hurt me, but why then he was showing me those signs and gave me hope? I just have feeling that i scared him..
I cant see him face to face and that is a problem. I still dont understand if im rejected or he is not ready.. Any suggestions??
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Agnes - if you've not got anywhere with this guy so far and you've known him since school - it ain't going anyway. He's making excuses and you are pushing him far too hard so he's backing off. Just stop contacting him, stop thinking about him - if there's a distance between you for a few weeks, and he really wants to see you, he'll come looking. If he doesn't - forget it, you might have misread all the signs in the first place. Some blokes are just friendly without wanting to take it further.
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