O dear it sounds as tho they have been said to you recently
I usually add - as in they arent gonna do this again ?
one time I got really possed off over a ( private ) election fraud/rigging, I said: Good if it happens again - first stop the High Court and I wont even bother to tell you I am going !
I have to say lesson WERE learnt on that one and future elections were conducted Very Carefully Indeed
The fact that the wrong doer has not said - o God I am SO sorry - I am ! Look ! Real Tears ! SOrry ! Sorry !
may still involve them changing behaviour which is really what you want
Daisy in your own case I hope the other party has indeed learnt lessons