What's In His Mind?? Where & How This Will End?

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What's in his mind?? Where & how this will end?
I recently met a guy in a class that we both attended. I've known him for few months now and slowly I started getting attracted to this guy. He's married and have a kid. He is few years older to me. And even I'm married and have a kid too. My hubby lives in another country. Such a thing never happened to me in my life!! I'm not sure why I got attracted to him on the first place but eventually I did! I grew so fond of him that after our class was over, I wanted to spend time with him. Ask him to take me out but he never did he always had reasons. After the entire classes was over, there was no opportunity for us to meet. That's when I thought this was just mere attraction. So I didn't yearn for him after that. After a month or so, we happened to meet and just after that moment, I just couldn't let him go. I was going so crazy about him & to be honest I even felt like making love with him so passionately. We sat in the car & had some chatting for more than an hour. This time our conversation was going more deeper. He said my eyes are very romantic and he asked me "in reality are you really that romantic because looks like only your eyes are" And after chat, he said he had to leave and I didn't want him to go. So he made 2 promises:1. he would take me out someday very soon- go out in the morning and come back in the afternoon spend some time and 2. he will take me on a long drive somewhere to a sea shore and spend the entire day with me. he also mentioned that I could bring my kid or any of my family members if I feel awkward going out with him alone!!!???) And today he called me we had some conversation and he asked me what is my sleeping posture and when I said my posture he immediately said "oh you know that posture means that such people have very intense sexual feelings and he also mentioned that ( he knows that my hubby he lives in a different country) so he mentioned that" why don't you go to sleep and have some dream and you know in the dream you can get some pleasure" I really wonder what's in his mind?? My mind is fighting like 2 swords. 1. How would I feel if my hubby was in my shoes 2. I'm struggling so hard to stop thinking of this guy!!! What is he really going on in his mind? Does he too feel the same way as I feel?? Or he is just flirting with me?? Like a "time pass"?? I'm not sure where and how this is going to end. Pls advice me friends. Thank you

[Scarlett]

Well, call me old fashioned but he's married and you're playing with fire. You need to sort things out with your husband before ruining someone else's marriage. Either you don't want to be married anymore, or you miss him and are looking for excitement and romance. Either way think about his kid and his poor wife. Don't ruin their lives just because you're feeling lonely. He is not yours to have.

[woofgang]

you know blooming well what is in his mind. What Scarlett says. He is not yours to have and you are married. If you don’t want to be married any more then deal with that before you seek another partner and if you do seek another partner, then make sure they are not married.

[Old_Geezer]

I wish folk would make good use of paragraphs.

Why is your husband elsewhere ? Are you separated permanently and so free to look for another partner ?

You made it clear to this other guy that you're interested so he's now responding. Why do you have to ask what is on his mind when you encouraged him to think you were eager to get close and intimate ?