boyfriend

[stylinsam]

i dont no if this is in the right section

last night my boyfriend went to a wedding and i was really worried about him going cos i new there wud b a lot of beautiful women there.

so anyway he rings me last night and tels me something about women i was half asleep so i just went bk sleep

but this morning i asked him wat he ment and he said he was dancing with the women last night

and i dont no how to take it i feel so jealous its unbeleivable and i really dont no if i trust him

how wud other people react in this situation.

please help xxx

[Scarlett]

He was at a wedding, he was dancing, women were there- that's life! As long as he doesn't rub your nose in it/boast, I would forget it! If you are important to him, he won't mention it again, and won't make a big deal of it.

[peterd]

He probably had a few drinks and just enjoyed himself. Just ask him what he meant when he phoned if it bothers that you that much, but don't go over the top. Only you know if you trust him. I wouldn't let the fact that beautiful women were there get to you

[4getmenot]

For him to mention it in the first place probably means he either is telling you the truth so you know to trust him or he is telling you because he wants a reaction. It�s a fact of life, when people start going out together it doesn�t mean that every other person becomes hideously ugly to them. You just have to remember its you he�s with :-)

[stylinsam]

thanks 4 your answers i have had a think about it xxxxxxx

[whiskeysheri]

Hi stylinsam, I know how you feel. I can be the same sometimes, but like 4getmenot says, it's you who he's with. Did he tell you as though he were trying to wind you up or was it just mentioned in conversation? How would he have reacted if you'd said you'd danced with men?

I wouldn't worry about it too much. Again, as 4getmenot said, it's probably innocent as he brought it up in the first place. x

[4getmenot]

And after your think about it, what conclusions did you come to?

[stylinsam]

well i thought to myself even if he did dance with other women he says he still loves me as i av spoke to him this morning again.

its just jealously i suppose.

the thing is if it was me it would be a different story as always but its time to live and forget

i need to smile anybody no any good websites to make me smile

[loobie]

Check out the second page of this section with Graceanais questions. There's a blonde moments topic and the last thing that made you laugh one. These certainly made me smile.

[Bohne]

If your faith in him does not even extend that far, I think there is something wrong with your relationship.

[CLOWN TICKLE]

I have always had close platonic friendships with women and have only ever had one intimate relationship which is with my wife of 18 years. Perhaps I,m unusual but I dont think so.

By the way my wife said she would trust me n****d in a room full of women but not with a loaf and a pound of butter, hope that makes you smile.

PS I put stars cos I didn't know if that was one word disapproved of

[sammd]

Hey stylinsam, i know how you feel, but there's beautiful women everywhere, in the street, at work.... I guess you know if you trust your bloke or not. I would probably ask what kind of dancing it was, but as said previously, don't make too big a deal out of it or he'll know it gets to you.

[GraceAnais]

can just ask why, a his partner, you weren't at the wedding?

the people whose wedding it was should have invited you too ( maybe not the main wedding but to the reception) three of my friends are getting married this year and they have all invited partners (even if they don't know them) it seems quite rude not to. yo wouldn't invite just one half of a married couple would you?

[stylinsam]

i was invited to the wedding.

the story was it was meant to be on the saturday but got cancelled for family reasons and they moved it to tuesday and i was working so i couldnt attend xxxx