got to rant

[nattab]

sorry, just so peed off at the mo. a few months ago a 16yr old girl on an internet game started chatting to my hubby and in her messages she would say things like 'luv ya loads' and 'your little rogue just seeing how u r'. now i got annoyed over this and sent her a voicemail telling her to pack it in and my hubby said, don't be stupid, she's just a kid, and she told me she is no threat to me as she has a fella., but i still got annoyed as she started texting him.

he stopped talking to her for a bit and then tonite i find him chatting to her and calling her 'hun' which really peed me off. then she asked him if i was around, i just want to call her and tell her to stay away from him. feeling so depressed and just want to cry, especially as i am not well at the mo.

just need a few words of advice from some friends.

[dot.hawkes]

smack him round the head and instead of getting tearful get angry

[nattab]

did that last time, threw things and everything, at the end of my tether now, we almost split up over it last time

[miss_me]

how did she get his number to text him? whats your husband playing at he's right she is a kid!! i agree with above post - hit him around the head - hard!!! Dont get yourself upset - its easy to esp as your poorly and more emotional proabably! xxx

[Dan Glebitts]

he should stop it as it seems to be getting out of hand now.....happened to me a while ago, so i "dumped" her but on the same day i found out her brother had died in hospital...how horrible...i felt horrible because she seemed really luvely and nice but enough was enough...oh well sh*t happens :-(

[dot.hawkes]

you've seen on here how it can get abit cheeky, but none of them have ever (I hope) caused any problems to anyone's marriage, there has to be a line drawn, i would draw it on his forehead right now and write ******

[nursecarla]

you need to sit down and talk to him the girl could be under 16 for all he would know and if you have to put a sledgehammer through the pc and his phone x x

[dot.hawkes]

Carla is a health professional listen to her

[nattab]

i've explained to him how i feel, and last time he started keeping his phone with him which i said proved that he had something to hide. i hate him so much sometimes for how he makes me feel.

i also said that he wouldn't like it if he found messages on my phone from fellas.

why can't he just tell her to get lost. just ready to throw his pc out of the window at the moment

[Jennykins]

Girrrrrrrrl, That is not good.. If my man was doing that I would lose it... Having flirty confersations with another girl in NOT right, It does not matter if it in on computer, phone. Its just the same as if he met her out doing something else... You have to get to the bottom of this.. he sounds like he needs to make a choice.. be with you or other girls... body and mind right

[mrrobbo15]

...i agree with nursecarla....

some blokes just dont know how lucky they are !!

[Katie~77]

Throw him out of the window. My sister's husband did this to her. Scumbag!x

[lia*]

the girl could also be an undercover detective looking for a child molester. this is very serious

[nattab]

he said last time that i was paranoid and that he wasn't about to run off with some d*****d off the computer, but he knows she lives in middlesborough

[electricblue]

Turn the tables nattab,,,,let her act out the 'Little girl' bit and you be the grown-up sexy woman perfectly able to have as much right to texts as he is!!!!!!????

[nursecarla]

he has gone back to his second childhood this girl makes him feel special in some perverted way, dont upset yourself try and get him to talk, point out the dangers, have you friends or parents around? x x

[nattab]

thing is though, he has 3 teenage daughters and a 18 year old daughter as well, so i pointed out that it would be like dating one of them, and how would he feel if he found out that one of them were talking to an old man like that???????????

i also said that her fella probably doesn't know half of what is being said

[dot.hawkes]

Tie him naked to the garden gate with a sign round his neck saying internet perve

[Katie~77]

Yes, that sounds about right. My sister was told that she was paranoid, mental, obsessive etc...etc...But then she caught her husband with the little trollop. Don't back down!x

[nattab]

or the sign should say looking for new home and new caring wife, cause mine doesn't give a s**t about me no more as i'm a t*t

[inej]

Hi nattab if your husband loves you and cares for you he should see how much it upsets you and tell this girl to stop bothering him. You need to have that trust.

My guy started to have text messages off his 15 year old second cousin,he is 35 she kept texting him and putting kisses on etc , from her end it looked like she was making out it was her boyfriend to impress her schoolfriends but she lives down cornwall and we are in midlands, she wouldn' t stop texting , even in the night.It was like she had crush on him. In the end he had to tell her mom to have a word because it was getting out of hand.

Hope thing's work out for you xx