bf saying i need lose weight

stylinsam | 11:10 Wed 20th Sep 2006 | Body & Soul

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last night my bf told me that i had put weight on and dont get me wrong he didnt say it nasty in any way!! but is he trying to tell me to lose weight or is he just stating that iv put weight on??

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maggie01

Either way, it is not very tactfull. Do you think you have put on weight?

electricblue

has he got all his hair sam?Maybe you could nicely tell him that his hair looks like its thinning slightly??

ummmm

Ask him if it bothers him. Men sometimes just state things without realising they maybe stabbing you in the heart. Is he the same weight as when you met him?? If not tell him 'shut up fatso'

electricblue

Or you could tell him that you're trying to keep up with him???

PinkFizz

lol electric!! How exactly did he say it sam hun??

ummmm

Then say 'at least i'm not ugly'

whiskeysheri

How's his face looking now that you've rearranged it, hun? :o)

How exactly did he say it? xxx

stylinsam

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he said it like this!- i said to him have i changed since i met you and he said only a bit he said youve put weight on but thats it!!

stylinsam

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he didnt say it mean!! i think iv put weight on but thats whiskeysheris fault!!! ;oP

PinkFizz

ooh Sam,you walked right into that one! Seriously,he did't seem to be saying you needed to lose weight at all.Maybe you were a bit skinny and now you are just right!

loobie

Dump him babe!! And come to London and join me in my new single life!! ;-) xx

stylinsam

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haha loobie! might take u up on that!! pinkfizz i agree !! with u maybe he was just stating i put weight on cos he didnt say to me sam YOUR FAT or Sam lose some weight!!....

PinkFizz

loobie - new single life??

Sam - you're not fat at all,dont be a plonker!

whiskeysheri

I reckon it's more like what Pinky (hi hun!) said, babes; that you were probably too skinny (cow! ;o)) when you met and now you're perfect! :o)

stylinsam

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oooooooooo loobies single now pinkfizz!!!! yes she is!!

loobie

Yep Pink!! Split up with my boyf at the weekend after 5 years!! And I feel great!!!!