just need help

[Tamara5544]

Ive been dating this guy for a little over a year now, Im totally happy with him! The problem is that when i was a senior in highschool he was one of my teachers. Im in college now and he is no longer a teacher at the school. We didnt start dating til after i left and he left. No one knows that we have been seeing each other, we have been secretly dating for the past year. I haven't told anyone because Im not sure what people would think. Is dating him wrong?

[curlyperm]

cant see your problem?? i'd go for it : )

[dantheman123]

Don't see a problem either.

[RATTER15]

Why would dating him be wrong, because of the age difference? go for it!!!

[noxlumos]

My wife's eldest son's father was one of her ex teachers, so you aren't the only one. People apparently did judge them initially strangely enough, him in particular, but it all calmed down very quickly, so yes if you love each other go for it.

[saxy_jag]

You weren't dating whilst he was your teacher, and he's not your teacher now, so I don't see there's a problem. Tell yourself that the people who matter won't mind, and the those who mind, don't matter.

Here's to you both.

[jno]

no. Teachers dating current pupils is wrong - abuse of authority - but past pupils is fine. Friend of mine married her teacher and had 35 very happy years with him.

[.daydreamer.]

i dont see anything wrong with it. people may find it a little odd at first, but theyll come round to the idea if you really do like this guy and you are both happy x