always go for boot cut jeans, its levels your figure out, scarfs tend to hide or draw the eye away from a stomach, i like to year black 3/4 trousers with black boots and a black top, then dress it up with a really fancy scarf from oasis or something, tie it so it falls in the middle of you like a tie, umm i find dorothy perkins good, dont show to much arm if theyre flabby, i never wear vest tops really like flowing arm tops, you can pick up nice dresses, just plain ones match it with a nice pair of tights (thick ones) and a good heeled shoe to thin out your legs that look is fab, boxing night i wore a royal blue plain dress out which came to the knee with black tights, a black chocker and clutch bag it looked fab if i may say so ha!! dont go for dreses above the knee, lose fitting trousrs, and always when buying shirts make sure when you sit down your not gapping, i also go for longer kind of tops rather than shorter fitting ones
does this help?