i did,
i love my husband but he is about forcefull as a force one gale, i like to have my sex rough and he is just not up for it, and i do not get turned on by, soft and gentle
we went to see a sex therapist, and she suggested that he becomes more dominant and for me to compromise, and not be be so demanding, they suggested we try some toys, and being tied up, and role play, also a little spanking and hair pulling
it is early days so far, and we will see