what would you do?

[opera winfre]

Right i have a friend who has been seeing this girl for 2 years now and they just got engaged a month ago.
Everybody likes her shes sweet and his family adore her and all his friends are jealous of him.
Problem is hes just discovered that she has been talking to and having an internet relationship with a guy in the England for nearly a year now,she says she has strong feelings for him and doesnt know if she can go through with marraige to my friend.
All this when she has only seen the guy on a webcam and never met.
He feels such a dope and doesnt know what to do.
Personally i think shes a tramp and he should cut her loose.
Anyone else got any thoughts on what he should do?

[liquidspace]

I wouldnt say she is a tramp, I would think that yes its not fair on her boyfriend but at least she is being honest with him. Maybe there is something that is lacking in her relationship with your friend.

[shineybomb]

She hasn't actually done anything wrong with the other guy but if she's not sure if she wants to get married now then I would tell him to call off the engagement for now until she decides if she really loves your friend or wants to take things further with this internet guy

[ummmm]

Cyber relationships happen all the time. Generally it's just a bit of fun and quite harmless. It doesn't make her a tramp though. If she was meeting up with net people and having sex with them, then I'd class her as a tramp. At the end of the day it's just words on a computer screen. As for having feelings for net man......it's all fantasy.

[Octavius]

Better for your friend to find out before they got married. As hurtful as it is for your friend, you have to admire her honesty.

I would suggest that your friend breaks off the engagement and relationship, until the �net guy� issue is resolved with this girl there will be no room for your friend in the relationship.

On the other hand I could just be an excuse to break the engagement and there really is no cyberman. Either way, she is telling your friend something about their relationship and he needs to get the message and act in his best interests. If he doesn�t then he really is a dope.