It may not be the dating agency, but more so in the composition of your initial communications that are not capturing the imagination of the person in whom you�re interested.
The internet serves as a wall or barrier in that first step of interaction. It can be dual-purpose: The individual who you are trying to reach may use the internet to politely reject your advances by simply not replying. Alternatively, the internet can be a protective wall that�s used as a vetting mechanism, where your targeted date has set a number of �qualifiers� in whom she wishes to build interest.
The first way to get that door to open is to make your presentation lucid, inviting and cohesive in its direction. It may be beneficial to read through your first letter�several times in some cases, to make sure it sends the right statement. You may wish to have a friend read it as well, to check for grammatical errors or possibly messages that could be misconstrued.
And prior to the first arranged meeting, it may be beneficial not to engage in on-line chatting at the risk of anything you write being interpreted in ways other than what you intended.
I have a friend, who has been married for 12 years to another close friend of mine. He�s a lovely chap � hard working, honest and dedicated to his wife. She�s as lovely as he is. What�s different is that his talents lie in his handiwork. Her talents lie in the arts.
They have told me time and time again, had he written her before she met him, she never would have gone out with him.
Good luck with the dating services. Personally, I should imagine that one-to-one opportunities are always the greatest.
Fr