Sarcasm

[Miss Random]

How do you decipher sarcasm from compliments?

Recently met a guy that is sarcastic and unsympathetic towards my problems.... is he being a complete a***ho le or should I give him a fair chance, as I would someone that was considerate and understanding?

Where do us girls draw the line?

He put a lot of thought and consideration into preparing birthday surprises for me, yet shows no compassion for my ongoing problems......

He is an enigma.....

Anyone got any advice??

[Miss Random]

Was just looking for a bit of advice, guess it�s a little late for sensible replies!!

Buonas nochas

[loublou1971]

Some people are unable to communicate easily. Or maybe this person does not realise how it effects others. I have an uncle who is extreamly tackless and put peoples backs up, and mine sometimes, i know he cares for me, he just does not think. I do tell him now. And seems to of got better. I did stop sharing information with him. that helps too.
You could try to point out that his reaction is effecting you. he may not realise etc.

[Miss Random]

Thank you loublou,

think he is being the ar se that legend describes......
..... thanks legend. Will bear your comments in mind should I meet him again, think if I took your advice though it will be doubtful...

[mrs bucket]

nite leg
and lay off the "hose"?

lmao

[Chattabonk]

Leggers

Your card is marked









hope it was worth it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



wotcha back





Hahahahahahaha

[Miss Random]

Hi chattabonk,,,,, I haven�t been on yet to tell you all about my birthday.....

daren�t say too much here.......

Missy

[topogigo]

It is all about respect, i am possibly the most sarcastic person i know, but only with my friends and occasionally strangers that i judge will see the funny side of it all. Not someone who feels offended by it.
It is my way of assuring myself that these are my friends and that i am safe to be me. If i had anything nasty to say i would keep it to myself.
As someone has said it is likely that he has difficulty talking about feelings and sees it as a weakness. Put it to him if you are that keen and see if he is worth it, or just walk away!