hmmmm...... need a bit help i got a lil sis problem

[lilteddybear]

well i'm 15 and have a 13 year old step sister with a mouth as big as the tyne tunnel.
at the weekend she came through to see her dad.
after she came i went out with my friends for a bit she as usual tag along.
i then told her about a lad that lives a few doors down that was bulling me before she came.
i sed that he was the biggest d*ck head i'd ever seen she went and told him wot i had sed as well as adding her own lil twist to the tale.
And thanx to her meddeling in my businessi had a big shock from that lad as he smacked me and started to get all my friends joining in at calling me names.
My step sister usually says to people to stop it but this time she just sat back and laughed.
pealse sum one help can any one give me a way to stop her???????
frm teddy

[Pippa24]

Hi
If you are being bullied you should tell someone so that they can help you, by someone I mean either your mum or dad or a teacher at school. U don't say if ur sister lives with u all the time or just visiting?

[dartmeet]

I agree that you should get some help about the bullying. Try www.childline.org.uk. If this bully isn't someone you have to see through school or whatever, you need to keep well away. If he's bullying you at school, you need to get someone adult to intervene (or do you have school reps to help with bullying?).Do you have school counsellors?
Secondly with the step-sister, it looks as if she is just immature and likely to get you into all sorts of strife. I'd try not to tell her too much right now. It's obvious she's not only going to tell your secrets, but is gobby with it as well. You should explain to her that until she grows up, and realises that her words have consequences, you'll keep things to yourself from now on. You need to have people to talk to but choose wisely.

[lilteddybear]

i spoke to his mam as my mam and his a good friends and have been for a few years now.

as for my sister she visits at the weekends she used to steal my things and has also started that agen.

i have aslo noticed how she's trying to split my mam and her dad up. by going out drinking and smoking but my mam knows i smoke i am trying to quit with her help.

i have noticed as well as all the above that she is trying to cause hassel between me and all my friends by tattling on each ov them wen they haven't sed any thing recently my friends jake and bear who both have been friends for 5 years have started fighting due to my sister. the have had fights every night since her being here this friday. she also caused a fight between me and my mam by saying i was pregnat which is not try as i proved to my mam by getting a pregnacy kit they came back negative. my mam had got sum more just to clear her mind a bit more they also came back negative.

my sister is trying to cause chaos in all my relationships with friends and famliy this isn't going down well with her dad he is starting to get reali upset and angry at her.
he told me that soon he'll just stop going to pick her up any more as its to much pain for him.

i'm upset for my step-dad too as in the past 3 years she hasn't once got him a xmas or birthday presant where as since i first met him i always have but in a way i think she's jelus of me cause he favers me more than her due to her reactions with my mam and actions towards him.


just to update the situation.

[dartmeet]

You're having a really tough time aren't you? I just hope that she will be found out for all that she's doing to you.
It's great you are trying to give up smoking. I hope that goes well for you. Just try and rise above all this. If she can't accuse you of anything then her lies will amount to nothing. Try not to worry about the adults in this situation. At your age you have enough worries of your own. The grown ups will look out for themselves.
Well done for talking to the mum of the bully, you are doing well and these things will pass. Bless you.

[flflflflflfl]

she may be acting up due to a bit of jelousy. she goes to see her dad who is living with his 'new family' which also contains a new daughter. try to explain that you understand it may seem that way but she is still her dads (only?)daughter and remind her that you dont live with your dad either, you want to be friends with her when she comes over but you wont put up with any stirring or trouble she causes as you have to live there all the time.if she carries on then dont let her come with you. she'll soon get bored