why does it hurt

[rocky_dude23]

why does it hurt so much i feel like im slowly dyin inside like im missin sumthing tht i kno is never come back, why does my heart so much for my ex gf all i can think about is her and how im never gonna be able to kiss or hug or share any other moments with hers its killin i just wanna fall down die

[4getmenot]

You need to finf something to take your mind of her. And coming on here everyday talking about her is not helping

[rocky_dude23]

but i can't help it i have all these feelings and no1 to share it with and tht i am on the verge of almost crying and i never ever cry

[4getmenot]

as I said take your mind of it, stop wallowing what will that achieve, In a few months you will wonder why you wasted so much time wallowing about it and that you may have missed out on meeting the love of your life. You are young, you wernt together that long, move on.

[redcrx]

you went out with her for 3 months and youre 17. Now i dont want to come across as nasty but you will feel much better about this in a few weeks.

In the meantime, get out, look at courses or apply for jobs you like the look of. Focus your attention elsewhere and get on with your life.

[ivanerection]

we are all slowly dying!
but most of us with a bit more dignity!
rocky-dude?
is that realy an apt name for you?

[LoftyLottie]

Well, it can hurt as much at seventeen and only a three month relationship 4get and Red. In can hurt a lot more especially if it's the first experience is not there and it feels like the end of world. Even at my great age I can remember feeling like this when a relationship ended at 17.

Have a good cry rocky dude. It's good for blokes to cry, they should do it more often. I know it's hard to think you will ever feel the same again, but you will and probably be hurt again. That's life.

[ChuckFickens]

I have a suggestion that may just take your mind off it.

http://tinyurl.com/6bqh93

[4getmenot]

Yes I;m not saying it wont hurt but I;m saying when you are older and wiser you will realise it was nothing. I guess I;ve just always been my own person and no-one else would ever make me wanna die

[rocky_dude23]

thank you loftylottie at least someone has a sense in what im feeling and i hu is more comforting

[redcrx]

youre right lofty, we have all been there, but thats why we can say that it really does help to focus on other things.

[LoftyLottie]

It's so easy to forget how intense feelings can be when we are young. I used to be a mentor for young people and they can be hurt so very easily and every trauma really does seem like the end of the world. We get more cynical as we get older and take more knocks. Believe me Rucky (you probably won't) but you will feel better quite quickly and move on.

Not the nicest age to be 17.

[LoftyLottie]

Yes Red, but we can say it all we like and young people will still not believe us. How many of us ever believed what our parents told us when we were young. In retrospect we can see they were right, but at the time we thought they just didn't understand.

A bit of sympathy doesn't hurt and I do feel sorry for Rocky.

[LoftyLottie]

I would rather a boy be like Rocky than be a 'Jack the Lad' who does the rounds without feeling anything for any of the girls!

[Octavius]

Yes Looty, we've heard you like boys who go around feeling girls!

Rocky she just wasn't the one for you. Sad and unbearable as that may seem now, in time you will find someone more suited to you and one that makes you happier than you could ever have been with this one.

[mrs_overall]

For those who are knocking Rocky just remember that it hurts a puppy just as much as it hurts a dog if you stand on it's tail.

[raysparx1]

hi rocky, I along with many others will know the pain you are feeling, all I can say is the pain will fade away in time, but it will take time rocky, there is no other cure for how you feel, crying is natural, never be afraid to show your emotions, when i split with my then girlfriend I felt like I had been stabbed through the heart it is the most painfull hurt and it is very real, try to find something to take your mind off of it during the daytime, I know the pain is worse at night but you are going to have to deal with that, as I said over time the pain is more bearable , slowly but surely you will rebuild your life, good luck rocky, take it easy and try to look forward, Ray

[conder]

Get a life. Women are like buses there'll be another along any minute

[fagidill]

Do a spelling course [you need it] that will help you forget.