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Does he fancy me? Should I make a move?
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Im 28 and back at uni for the 2nd time. The term has almost ended for the year and I noticed this guy staring at me last week. Now that Iv noticed Im beginning to think about him alot !
Last week he made eye contact with me and held my gaze for more than 4 seconds so I had to look down to the ground as I was a little embarrased. The thing is I think hes only maybe 20 and there is no way he would ask me out!
He makes eye contact with me in the hallways and always talks and laughs etc if we are in a crowd waiting to get into the lectures but if we are alone he completely ignores me! I tried to say hi to him at the bus stop but he didnt talk ! He talks to other girls no problem though.
I dont know how to act as Im older than him ( but I look very young ) I know he knows Im older but he prob thinks Im like 24-25 not 28. Do you think the age difference is a problem?I normally go for guys the same age.
Iv got it bad now and think about him all the time but dont know if he likes me and if maybe he does should I make a move because Im older ? Or would that scare him?
Thanks everyone :)
Last week he made eye contact with me and held my gaze for more than 4 seconds so I had to look down to the ground as I was a little embarrased. The thing is I think hes only maybe 20 and there is no way he would ask me out!
He makes eye contact with me in the hallways and always talks and laughs etc if we are in a crowd waiting to get into the lectures but if we are alone he completely ignores me! I tried to say hi to him at the bus stop but he didnt talk ! He talks to other girls no problem though.
I dont know how to act as Im older than him ( but I look very young ) I know he knows Im older but he prob thinks Im like 24-25 not 28. Do you think the age difference is a problem?I normally go for guys the same age.
Iv got it bad now and think about him all the time but dont know if he likes me and if maybe he does should I make a move because Im older ? Or would that scare him?
Thanks everyone :)
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Dear babycaketoots.
If at 28 you still behave like a girl half your age you really need give yourself a kick in the pants. You are missing out on a possibly beautiful relationship. In this day and age it is not regarded forward for the girl to do the asking. Let others worry about the age gap(?) and enjoy your live or you'll be sorry what you missed out on when you get older. Good luck.
Regards, Aunt Abby.
If at 28 you still behave like a girl half your age you really need give yourself a kick in the pants. You are missing out on a possibly beautiful relationship. In this day and age it is not regarded forward for the girl to do the asking. Let others worry about the age gap(?) and enjoy your live or you'll be sorry what you missed out on when you get older. Good luck.
Regards, Aunt Abby.