Your post is a bright bit of news jemisa
I have a 46 year old severely autisic son. A few years ago my wife became unable to walk more than a couple of dozen feet, so I have to do everything for her.
The various agencies and support groups try to help and continually tell me of things I 'should' be eligible to receive. But, as another poster said, "Fill out lengthy forms," which are really 'hard work' and seem to drain me, only to find out a few weeks later, "Your application does not meet acceptable criteria" And it always makes me feel like I am trying to get some to which I shouldn't have.
One thing is for sure, I want to keep my family together, but, over the last few years my arthritis has begun to really make it difficult for me to keep going.
And, at my age, it won't be very long until I have to ask for someone to take care of me........but.............I fully intend to delay that as long as humanly possible.
Good luck to you and yours, you certainly have brightened my day
A question to everyone, "Why can't we get the Thousands of Pounds of support, like many of the illegal residents are able to receive?" My wife and I worked very hard all our lives and sometimes we feel like we are not even part of this new-England society.
Old Salt