First, let's just debunk the whole "just a theory" point. This is one of those times where the technical meaning of a theory and the public's meaning clash. The technical meaning of "theory" is, in essence, something that is as close to factual as it is possible to be in Science. Obviously no theory is ever perfect, but at the moment there is nothing that fits the experimental data better than Einstein's Theory of Relativity. Thus, to all intents and purposes, it's factual, and you would be hard-pressed to find a single reputable Scientist who did not accept Relativity as a correct description of Gravity on large/ strong scales.
The same is essentially true of the "Big Bang" Theory. Up to the details of whether or not there was anything before, all competing theories such as in particular the "Steady State" Theory, or some young Universe model, have failed to fit the data and are for the time being discarded as explanations. As with everything else in Science, this is subject to the current status of experiment. We've just had a paper published last week that appears to cement the two theories of General Relativity and the Big Bang as the correct ones; if this result turns out to be wrong, and if at the same time some new and verifiable experiment showed that in fact an alternative model was correct, then the understanding of what is the "correct" Theory would change.
It seems that when members of the public talk about things as being "theories", they are using the word in the same way that a scientist would talk about a "hypothesis" -- which is to say, an idea that hasn't really been tested properly yet. If you wanted then to dismiss an idea as "only a Theory", you really ought to talk about it being "only a hypothesis". Completely different things: Hypotheses are untested, Theories have been tested and found to pass the test; for now, at least, but even then theories that pass one test but fail another are often still useful. Think of Newton's Theory of Gravity, which must after all be wrong because of the fact that we need Einstein's Relativity -- but is still useful because, as far as it goes, it is a very good description of how Gravity works. If you wanted to send a rocket to the Moon, for example, it's enough to use Newton's Gravity, and you lose virtually nothing and gain simplicity in doing so. On the other hand, describing Mercury's orbit about the Sun needs the upgraded Theory of Einstein. Presumably, at some point, describing Gravity in the earliest stages of the Universe, or at the tiniest scales, will need a better Theory still -- we are still looking for this. But each Theory is a more accurate version of the ones that precede it, and doesn't make previous ones wrong.
The name "theory", anyway, doesn't tell you that the idea is under dispute; indeed, almost exactly the opposite, as only those ideas that have passed the stringent tests of experiment receive the lofty honour of being called "Theories".
The Mathematical equivalent is a "Theorem", which is to say, something that has been proven to be true. As I've said, Theories are the best Scientific equivalent, ideas that are empirically true in present status.
Anyway, to dismiss Relativity, or the Big Bang, as "just a Theory" is a misunderstanding of the word.
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