Can Anyone Help Me????
I have a problem....maybe a few. My husband went to prison for something he did in his early 20's. He's 31 now. Well, while he was in prison, his brother and I became really close. He is a sweet, responsible, HOT, guy. The BIL loves my kids and they love him. He gets mad because of the way my husband does me. Me and my husband are complete opposite. He is wild and immature, where I'm more level headed. I take care of bills, take care of the house, take care of the kids, I don't cuss, do drugs, party, or anything like that. I work everyday. I've been at the same job for three years and moved up pretty far in the company. Then there's my husband. He can't keep a job. He was diagnosed with bipolar, depression, and high anxiety. Don't get me wrong when he's nice he's great, best person you'd hope to ever find, would give you the shirt off of his back, but when he's a jerk, he's a full blown JERK. Anyway, I think about my brother in law constantly. Everyday all day. I dream about him everynight. I'm wondering if it's the forbidden fruit syndrome or am I in love with an image of what I think my husband could be? Well, then yesterday I found out, by my husbands friend that before he went to prison he was supposed to have slept with my brother's wife. This woman is a skank ***** that will sleep with anything with a heart beat. He even said my husband described the way her crotch looked. : P Yuck! It' s driving me crazy because he knows I would never be with someone that cheated on me. How can I find out if my husband slept with my sister in law more than 2 years ago if both parties deny it? and by the way, the friend that told me more than less told me if I'd divorce my husband and be with him that he would tell me all kinds of stuff about my husband. That has me thinking, is he just saying that because he wants in my pants or what? which would never happen in a million years anyway But still that has to make you wonder if he's lying.Does anyone know what I should do???