Jaffa cake

[MarzipanQ]

Just read The Guardian article re Jaffa cake now being included in the 5yr revision of the OED. I'm puzzled as to the reference in the article of the words Jaffa cake being diversified into a "small subculture in bondage sex". I understand the references to a nickname & those in literature but bondage sex? Without anyone giving me a pornographic reply does anyone know the answer?

[Pippa68]

I have only ever heard of the jaffa cake (in sexual terms) used to describe anal sex. How & why..I don't know!

[spacechimp]

It really is very confusing. My friend and I haven't a clue and none of the usual places to find out what on earth it means have yielded any results. Not even Urban Dictionary or Google Images...

Maybe Martin Wainwright was having a joke.

[MarzipanQ]

Someone on the Guardian joking? Hmmmm lol Yes, I tried a search & ended up on some very scary sites so gave that up quickly. Seems I'm going to have to find a newly revised OED to satisfy my curiousity but ty Pippa & Spacechimp for the replies.

[spacechimp]

http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/dictionary/Ja ffa_Cake/
This is all I've been able to find, but it's not really very coherent.
(I logged in to ask this question myself, as it goes).

[MarzipanQ]

I think I've worked it out:) Jaffa cakes are so delicious that when one is in bondage a Jaffa cake is placed so temptingly near but so unobtainable that it's exquisite torture controlling the salivating desire to eat it:) There, I'm not going any further because someone might come up with a really revolting answer & put me off Jaffa cakes for ever:)