Connemmara, remission and survival depends on many things...the type of lymphoma, how it's affected the body & organs, other medical problems etc. not to mention sheer determination from the patient to keep going. Against all the odds I survived Hodgkins lymphoma many yrs ago - it was a late diagnosis - so if I can do it anyone can! Treatments have improved greatly since then and side effects are better controlled...as has the emotional understanding and support which is vital. I hope your friend has the strength and support to see her through this - one day at a time and before long she'll be a third of the way through, then half & finally the home stretch. It might seem daunting now, but the bad days will pass, it's not all doom & misery, try to have lots of smiles along the way. I wish her the very best.... & you too, you're obviously a good friend to have. x