Apologies,
I have had one too many G&T's tonight.
It is my(late) Mum's birthday.
Whilst she was a loving and kind person,she ignored(but knew about) 18 years of my Father physically & mentally abusing me(Ileft home at 18)
So I get drunk to try and forget the bad part of her,and rmember only the good.
Does it work?
Not really.
See you again when I am sober.
Remember the good and know that in spite of all that has gone before you are not a product of your up bringing but are a person of worth in your own right.
You do the sympathy if you want to look a prize fool micmak in the morning.........(sorry wasnt having a pop at you micmak at all -but OP just a tad OTT tonight and they know it)