Am I Transgender Ftm?

[SassyManson]

i have always been masculine/butch i really want short hair i hate having breasts, curves and hips i recently have started crying because of my breasts. i don't like having periods i would really like facial hair and more body hair e.g. chest and a mans muscular body, but not necessarily a penis (although i like to pack) i would love to be seen a one of the boys. i wear more boyish clothes including my brothers boxers. i have never liked anything girly i have panic attacks when forced to wear a dress or skirt, when i first started getting breasts i refused to wear a bra because i did not want breasts. i have never related to girls or understood why girls like doll and make up or other "girl things", but have related to boys and understood why they like sport and cars and all the other "boy things". when i was young i really wanted to pee standing up also i asked my dad why are some of us girls and others boys and he said before you are born you decide if you want to be a boy or a girl, i didn't really believe him because i was thinking that can't be true there is no way i would have chosen to be a girl. once at a friends party the mum had bought princess plates and cups to eat of and i refused to eat my food from the plate, so the mum had to go and get my a football plate and cup to calm me down. i don't identify as female but not sure if i fully identify as male.

[Mosaic]

I like machinery, building and construction, flat shoes and practical loose clothes. I find 'princess' merchandise gross. I Have never found anyone who enjoys having periods. I would have a blue fit if 'forced' to wear anything I didn't like. What gender does that make me? Don't really care.
To quote the immortal popeye, 'I am what I am'

[jim360]

I'm not in a position to say -- but based on what you say you might be. Go and seek medical advice at a gender identity clinic and discuss it with them.

[pixie373]

To be honest, i really don't understand how anyone is in a position to "know" they are the wrong sex. If you've never been the opposite, how could you know that's what you're feeling. A lot of what you've described is society's stereotypes, rather than genetics, i would say. I think you should talk it through with an expert, though.

[B00]

And yet you call yourself "Sassy"?

[Old_Geezer]

Can you not come to terms with your androgynous situation ? One ought not fret over that which one can not change.

[joeluke]

Commonly known as a tom boy

[modeller]

You don't want to be one but are you attracted to girls ?

[EDDIE51]

How old are you, you come over as quite young in which case you may well change your mind in a few years.

[wildwood]

All human bodies manufacture a fair bit of opposite sex hormones, the level of which steadies down in the late teens, mostly. Your 'symptoms' are not unusual. Does your school not have a sex councilor who you can talk too?

Some of you comments relay that you are still immature (and that is not a negative thing) and you will probably feel different in a couple of years.

[SassyManson]

yes i do like girls and sometimes boys btw i am 16

[boxtops]

On your duplicate thread, I commented about your age and that lots of youngsters feel like you - it's all part of growing up. Go look at the other thread, not everyone's a girly girl.

[DTCwordfan]

chill, sassy, your first serious love affairs 16-20 will map this out for you.......if you still feel strongly this way in two years, then I would seek counselling and potentially an endrocrinologist as your starting point - with your GP's knowledge.....and do your research. The Beaumont Society is not a bad place to start.......