13 Year Old Little Sister Acting Weird Lately, Should I Be Concerned?

[jakean92]

So this is a bit weird for me, but I don't feel like I can discuss it with our parents without making my sister upset.

She's been closing herself off in her room more recently and I've noticed that she doesn't seem to come down the hallway to use the bathroom really. I didn't really worry much because, she would act fairly normal during family dinner, hanging out and other stuff. But I have had 2 events that make me worry..

The first event was during this past weekend. My mom asked if I'd drive her down to the shopping center and let her get some more clothing for the school year, as it's getting colder. Everything between us was normal, aside from her acting a bit shy? But during our shopping, I noticed when she crouched down to look at the lower shelves. It looked like the waistband of a diaper was poking out from her skirt's waistband.

I didn't really see it for long before she stood back up, but it was weird at that given time. But I didn't want to mention it since I couldn't confirm it for sure.

The second event happened the other night ago and mainly my concern of what's going on.. Our family was watching a movie together and with our living room setup, we had my parents on one sectional of the couch and us two on the other. Nothing was out of place, till towards the end of the movie. I could smell something awful.. It was exactly that kind of smell you'd know of.. It was within a minute after that, when she excused herself and ran upstairs for the remainder of the night before bed. I would've thought my parents would mention the smell, but they didn't say anything.. I don't know if they couldn't smell it from where they were or what.

So.. Now that's out of the way. I should mention that I actually have a diaper fetish kind of thing.. I wear adult diapers and have kept it a secret to the best of my knowledge. But now I believe my little sister either knows about my secret and for whatever reason, she managed to sneak her own diapers into the household. I don't know if she's like me, where she managed to be curious with them at a younger age and might possibly like wearing them and using them? But part of me has to wonder if it has anything to do with my secret of them, be it because she wants my attention from it or has become curious because of it?

I don't know how to handle the situation and I feel like it'll be awkward between us, if more events like this happen. I'm under the idea that our parents have no clue, but they could already be aware of her thing with them? Should I try talking about it with her directly or go to our parents? I'm just concerned because if anyone her age finds out, they'll most likely make fun of her.

[Bobbisox1]

How old are you to be wearing a diaper? ( nappy here)

[spathiphyllum]

At the age of 13 i highly doubt your sister would be developing a dipar fetish and instead would simply be transitioning through puberty. She will change, her emotions and her character.

Out of curiosity if you would like to divulge the information how old are you i comparison to your sister?

[spathiphyllum]

I mean.. It's one thing to assume your 13 year old sister has incontinence problems or is maybe going through puberty changes so she wants more protection in her underwear area.

To assume she's wearing dipars because of you.. is actually very odd. Very odd indeed. It's a fetish that is rather odd in my opinion as are all fetishes which revolve around the ideology of children especially babies. I'm not kink shaming you I'm just saying try not to sexuality your 13 year old sister with your dipar fetish.

[spathiphyllum]

sexualize *

[MallyJ]

she is 13 and has probably started her periods.....perhaps she has seen that you use nappies and thinks this is what she should do ....I would have a chat with your mum and leave them to get on with it. Girls can be very shy about changes in their bodies...though I have to say she shouldn't smell

[jakean92]

I'm 21 and still live at home. (easier to save up for my own place in the future)

I'm not trying to sexualize my little sister.. But from my point of view there's two reasons I thought of why she'd be wearing them. I guess it could be something to do with her going through puberty for extra protection.. But what I don't understand is, if that's the case. Why is she using them instead of going to the bathroom and to be going out in public with them on?

It just seems weird to me that she wouldn't just use tampons or pads, something for puberty if it was being used for that. I just want to make sure this isn't going to have similar weird events for us as siblings going forward.

[spathiphyllum]

jakean92 for all you know she is having urine problems or something similar and she has been to the docs with one of your parents.

To instantly assume kinks and fetishes is not the direction to go down.

I think a conversation with your parents would be fine.. Just say.. "I noticed blah blah" "Is all ok?"

[jakean92]

I didn't really think of it being a urine issue. I guess it really leaves me in a odd spot, because if I mention something about this to our mom. I'm sure at some point later, she'll slip up about it to my sister and she might look at me weird for even noticing her odd behavior. I'm just worried, knowing how mean kids could be about these kind of things at their age group.

I guess I don't have much of a choice though, I either chat with our mom about it and be at peace of mind or I try ignoring it.

[Bobbisox1]

^^^^^ chortle splutter@O_G

[spathiphyllum]

jakean92 if it's on for a medical reason your mum should be fully aware of the situation and will talk to you about it if you nee to know.

I'm sure though, your 13 year old sister told mum not to tell her manly 21 year old brother about a potential urine problem or incontinence issue. However, if you raise the issue your mum will be open, i'm sure.

If however, your mum is none the wiser, then you have raised the issue with her, for your mum to get to the bottom of. It is not your situation to get involved in. You can mention the waste band, and you can mention the urine smell. She will then do some digging.

I think it's best left alone by you though, Jake. You don't want to go talking about your dipar kinks to your sister to find out she has a UTI.

[jakean92]

I believe your answer is the best for this situation, as my underlining goal is concern for her with her peers. Thank you, it's been driving me nuts for a while and now I can try at least getting somewhere with the situation.

[spathiphyllum]

I'm sure her peers may be aware of her medical situations as a 13 year old girl would have to do lessons with her peers such as psychical education (sport / gym)

I'm sure a 13 year old girl may be a bit shy or embarrassed at revealing such information to her older 21 year old brother.

Depending on your relationship, you could take your questions to your sister directly, but remember to go down the medical path rather than the fetish one :)

[Ringlet]

Your sister wears a diaper, never visits the bathroom, but you "didn't think it was a urine issue"? Please - get help for your sister from someone who has a modicum of common sense.