It Appears I Upset A Few People Last Night So I Apologise

[Bobbisox1]

I was accused of drinking etc which wasn’t the case , I’d been out with my husband and had only two drinks which I threw up anyway because of not eating , or very little, I apologise to Naomi for anything I said on her long post , to A Asquith for the unprovoked attack to her,
I’m in a very bad place right now and my poor husband is taking the brunt of it all, it doesn’t help that I’ve had at least 3 poisons posts aimed at me, one still there

[Bobbisox1]

Cont.
Each day brings more heartache and by coming on here I thought I could not forget but be taken to a different place , I’m not eating and not sleeping since my granddaughter died on my wedding anniversary ,
The last vicious attack was saying I’m attention seeking?
For telling AB my granddaughter has died?
It looks as if it was a bad epileptic fit , my son can’t deal with it ….and so it goes on

[Old_Geezer]

My sympathy for your troubles. May you turn the corner soon.

[pastafreak]

Bobbi, I don't think you have any thing to apologise for. And as I vaguely recall, I don't think there was a reference to anything specifically in the present. That's just my take on it. I hope you don't mind my response.

[TigerlilyCD]

I don't know you or what happened but please remember that you are not answerable to anyone on here. I'm sorry for your loss and anyone abusing you should be banned.

[THECORBYLOON]

Which post is there still?

Perhaps a Mod could review it?

[Bobbisox1]

No, TCL, I was the one at fault, the others have been removed now

[gness]

You're grieving. Just take the good things you get from AB....and there is much. Try to ignore the bad things, not always easy I know too well.

When my granddaughter died the lady who told me it was God's will got short shrift. I should have been kinder to her.
Going into the funeral of MrG I was approached by someone telling me not to be sad...he was at peace now.
During my long, grateful to many and often funny speech I did ask that nobody was to say to me that he was at peace now because if he was anywhere he wouldn't be at peace.....he would be bloody furious.
Times such as you're going through can make you more touchy....it's natural and should be considered.
You take care...x

[tiggerblue10]

I have no idea what has gone on, on here, in the past, Bobbi, but I hope that any nastiness is dealt with by the mods quickly. Its uncomfortable and quite upsetting for most of us to see it happening.

I guess it's down to personalities and behaviour and I hate confrontation of any kind.

[Bobbisox1]

If only the tears and anger would stop

[MissTerious]

Bobbi I seriously think you are too trusting in sharing so much personal information on here and it attracts the trolls or even people who like to kid you that you are their best mates. Remember Tea Cake!! I am of course sorry about your son and granddaughter. I'm caught up in a very nasty situation myself and have been for the last 18 months. I've said this to you before but you leave yourself wide open on AB. Just be careful. You are liked a lot on here.

[Bobbisox1]

Thank you Lottie, I hope whatever it is that’s troubling you works itself out too

[LadyCG]

What's this about my husband having a relationship with someone called Patrick?

My cousin has a son called Patrick. It's a good solid Irish name. I heartily approve!

Anyway, Bobbi, I haven't seen what you've posted today on Naomi's thread as I thought it wise to walk away but I'm damn sure you've got nothing to apologise for.

[Bobbisox1]

That has now been removed Lcg but it stood a while

[LadyCG]

It made us both laugh anyway :)

[MissTerious]

Thank you.

[MissTerious]

That was to Bobbi

[Barsel]

Hi Bobbs, I'm sorry to hear you've been upset by what some people have posted,.
I didn't see any of the posts myself so can't comment, but I will say that anyone who has upset someone who is grieving as you are, are not worth bothering with.
I've probably said this before, but I can't imagine how you are feeling about losing your Granddaughter.
I have 4 Granddaughters myself and I couldn't bear to even think about anything happening to them.
Try to ignore the poison posts if you can as I wouldn't want you to stop posting on here because of them. xx

[Bobbisox1]

Barrel it’ll be a long road back I know , I really wish it were Christmas till we went away to recharge the batteries, this is my second marriage and as lovely as my husband is, he can’t know what’s happening to me

[Bobbisox1]

Just to add Barsel I was at fault last night but today I’ve had some awful posts aimed at me by new usernames , I only wish the Ed could do something about those who are doing it

[Barsel]

Only someone else who has been through the same thing can begin to understand how you feel Bobbs.
I do wonder if those who have been nasty to you maybe don't have children or grandchildren as if they did, perhaps they might have a slight notion of how it feels.