The Listener Team, AIUI, consists of the vetters (John Grimshaw and Derek Arthur), plus the marker/statistician (John Green).
Some of the "serious" Listener solving community frequent the message board at Derek Harrison's crossword centre. In fact, this very site has come under discussion: See the thread on Cheating at
http://b2.boards2go.com/boards/board.cgi?&user =dharrison&page=8
I don't think the condemnation is quite so general as one might suppose from Quizmonkey's contributions here.
OTOH it is certain that many people take the Listener stats very seriously indeed and that there is the potential to hurt quite a few people quite badly if the puzzle is seriously compromised on the net (and there lies the difference, if any, with Azed and the rest).
If Quizmonster genuinely doesn't care about hurting others, then there is not much more to be said. I prefer to believe that he thinks, instead, that occasional requests for the odd answer do not compromise the puzzle enough to really hurt anyone. I'd be tempted to agree, but there is the "slippery slope" argument, and I do think Offramp's question is inappropriate. That said, it is encouraging that no-one has answered it. Indeed, there don't seem to be many complete solutions to puzzles posted here; perhaps the values of AB-ers and hardcore Listenerers are not so divergent after all.