my children aged from 5 years upto 13 years old every time they have a tantrum or get mardy i saing them this little song (to the tune of MY BOY LOLLIPOP ) mardy bum , mardy bum oh mardy mardy bum mardy bum, mardy bum oh mardy mardy bum mardy bum mardy bum oh mardy mardy bum mardy mardy mardy mardy mardy mardy mardy mardy mardy mardy mardy mardy bum ba bum bum bum it frustrates the hell out of them but they soon calm down do you think im cruel ?