Hugs to you BigDave. Thanks for being a real sweet man with a sweet heart ;-) No worries, just like water off a swan's romantic back ;-) Oh my gosh, before my current neurological condition, hence the spelling mistakes, was a psychiatric nurse so very little bothers me in the way of fools or foolish words or any other kind of craziness. Also, sure of who I am so no unkind words cannot shake me. Rise above it all like a phoenix or a swan ;-) Am blessed to , as am married to my best freind in a husband who adores me totally + is my equal in every way ;-) Complete several cryptic crosswords every week + general knowledge ones as well as keep brain active with various lateral thinking Nintendo DS Lite puzzles. Am not a perfectionist or ever claim to be. Move to the beat of a different drum- dynamic in thinking + a dynamic optimist. Wish everyone here a most wonderful 2009- may you all be blessed with many ah( love, peace, joy, sublime happiness, R.A.O.K, (i) angel hugs(i) and friendships)moments , many a-ha ( wonder, Eureka, serendipity, light bulb flashing) moments + many ha-ha ( humour, comedy that heals, laughter medicine, seeing the funny side of everything even during challenging/dark times + taking self lightly) moments. May you think out of the box- see beyond sight or touch deeper than the mere senses. May you place kindness, good old fashioned manners, forgiveness, compassion + love above all else, for goodness sake + be the better individual always. Warm wishes, Beatrice :-)