No, they are not a bully. The more spaces you take up on the front page, the faster questions are pushed off the bottom. This may lead to questions not being answered due to them not being seen quickly enough. True, all questions may be answered, but why, when you can help prevent the possibility of them not being, would you not do so?
Hi chrispybacon! You are quite right that we can all click over to the second page, although obviously questions on the front page will attract much more attention than those further back. And I imagine, if you think about it, that you realise it would be more considerate not to take up too many of the 20 prime slots on the front page.
But the real problem crops up further down the line: quite often it is not possible to go back further than page 10, so your unnecessary extravagant use of precious front page slots banishes other people to oblivion earlier than would happen if you put all your queries into one single posting.