This is just the saddest news. Crofter my thoughts are with both you and Val.
As somebody has posted, life can be so cruel. I am very upset for you both, but I do hope you get some quality time together.
As far as the MM lInks go, I will try and help where I can, but I don't think anyone could fill Crofters shoes. Having said that, I think it would be a shame if we could not somehow, between us, carry this weekly social gathering on, for Crofter more than anyone.
Maybe we could put our heads togeher?