i agree that blame can be spread around.
Many seek to blame solely the police etc...and there does seem to be a general feeling that the fans were totally blameless...
but the fact remains that if the fans were not shoving and forcing their way into the ground, nothing bad would have happened.
the police handled it very badly, ignored pleas from fans to open the fences, and then hid facts etc...but lets not forget who carried on shoving and shoving, despite the screaming, until they got through...
i lost a schoolfriend at hillsborough and am still in touch with his sister, so i was by no means unaffected by this...but those fans that shoved should stand up and accept their part in this and stop trying to blame everyone but themselves...
personally if id lost someone in my immediate family to this, i know my anger would be at the shoving fans just as much as the police...