Is She Being Sneaky? Or Does She Like Him And Want To Get With Him On The Low?

[Miya]

First off my so called friend knows exactly what time i go to school and it seemed like every time i go to school shes calling my boyfriend while shes at work and im not around, asking for me when she knows i'm in school,
at first i didn't think nothing of it because she WAS my friend and i trusted her , but then it kept happening and it would be the same time i was in school , then i started catching on , so when i did get the chance to talk to her i never asked her. but one day she just came out and said without me asking , that she calls his phone because the Job phone doesn't work right and thats why she calls his number instead of mine,
if you can call all 10 of his digits without it being a problem then you couldv'e called my phone and if you know im in school why are you calling him asking where im at and can you speak to me when you know damn well that im in school , to me that was Bs lie and i believe she felt guilty about it that why she came out and explained herself without me asking
I'm just curious to know what she was trying to do , me and my boyfriend talked about it and i asked him what did he think she was trying to do .. and he said he thinks she was trying to see if he was gonna come on to her while i wasn't around. Can someone give me there honest opinion on this or previous experience??? please & thank you
Note: no nasty or smart comments , if you cant answer the question or say anything nice don't say anything at all Thnx!!

[boxtops]

She's having you on - funny that the work phone will dial his number but not yours.

[ll_billym]

I wouldn't worry too much about what and why, the bottom line is that you don't like her phoning him like this and would rather it stop.

Just coming out and telling her to stop phoning him is a bit strong and may ruin your friendship as it sounds like you are accusing her of something so in my opinion the best bet would be to make a joke out of it with her, tell her you totally understand why she phones him - because he's cute - and that you find it funny and sweet that she does this (and try to really believe it this yourself). When she says about the phone not working, just laugh and say 'aah any excuse', don't get into any kind of conversation of how phones work! Hopefully this will do the trick after a short while.

Good luck.

[daffy654]

Just tell her you would rather she stopped phoning your boyfriend while she knows for a fact you are at school.

[wildwood]

If you can't trust your boyfriend now, than your relationship hasn't got much of a future. Tell him you don't feel comfortable about the situation and leave it at that. Time will tell. If he's interested in another girl, it will happen no matter what you do. Going green without good reason is going to put him off you.

[beso]

Don't panic. You are still at school. The odds that your boyfriend is "the one" are quite slim.

If your friend steals him away then she has saved you a lot of wasted time. If he stays then you have reached an early milestone in your relationship.

Either way she has done you a favour.

[sebhfhion]

Miya,no one can steal anyone away from you, your boyfriend has the option to say no to your friend. its good that you have talked about this with him but it could be he's enjoying all this female attention: who wouldn't ;-) If he chooses her then unfortunately there is nothing you can do but go fishing in the sea for a better catch x.