Back Stabbed By Family

[adam_7676]

I have been backstabbed by the people most close to me whom I considered family :( the people I’m talking about are my brother-in-law’s wife and her sisters and a couple of friends; for the past 2 years we’ve been together almost every day we’ve been doing all sorts of stuff together and we always have so much fun and I really love them so much and they always seemed like they really loved me and my fiancée too and they always called us to hang out and they’ve always cared about us I can’t express how close we were!. A few days ago I accidentally found a group on whatsapp where they were all in except for me, my fiancée and her brother of course :S it was dedicated to hating the two of us they were always talking about us making fun of us in every way even the stuff that were not even remotely related to them they gave us stupid names and they kept saying how much they hated us and every time we got together or traveled somewhere on vacation they were on that group talking about us and how they didn’t even want us there, the group was created less than 3 months ago so maybe it wasn’t always like that but I was really shocked because I really loved them and I was there for each and every one of them through a lot of tough times and I thought they appreciated my help but instead they hate me after all what I’ve done and I’ve done A LOT. Till now they keep pretending like they love us and that they care :s even when I saw one of them today because we had plans before I saw the group and I didn’t want to cancel because I don’t know what to do yet, she kept asking me what was wrong because I was angry and it was obvious and she kept asking me all day if I was okay and she called me to check on me afterwards :s if I didn’t see it with my own eyes I would have never believed that they don’t care about me because they act like they care too much or at least they care a bit.
So now I don’t know what to do I can’t confront them because beside it being soooooo hard they might not believe that I found that group by accident. I can’t tell my fiancée because she will make a very big deal of it, I mean I know it’s really huge but I don’t want this to cause a big fight between my brother-in-law and his wife because I know it will :s and I certainly can’t keep treating them in the same way because they are a bunch of lying hypocrites  and I can’t just not speak to them because we’re family and I’ll have to see them a lot.

[ummmm]

What??? You can't confront them?

If you can't do it face to face...do it by other means. Text/email/facebook/bbm/letter/snapchat....

[Canary42]

Ask if you can join the group.

[Mamyalynne]

Well, if this is dragging you down so much - you must in some way confront it.

[society]

Adam, how the heck do you say all this in one breath?

[lcg]

and then tell them to sod off.....and find new good buddies. sometimes life hurts and kicks you too!!!