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I've Come On Here For A Rant..
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Only because I have no one else to use as a sounding board. Mic has been a real *** today. Told me to F off at least half a dozen times, spat his food out, tried to bite me, the list goes on. I told him I'm not putting up with this from him so I'm going out. I didn't go out just sat on the step and wondered where my life was going. When I was on the step he was calling me all the time then he started to cry. I went back in and he told me how sorry he was. We had tea and cake and then he had a nap. When he woke he was again abusive. I said I thought you were sorry he said F off.
So I'm playing this song for me. Thanks for listening
So I'm playing this song for me. Thanks for listening
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Then you have to be the one who chases them up Jeza. You are no use to Mic or yourself if you burn yourself out. Get onto Social Services and tell them what you need and put a rocket under them until you get the help you both need. I've had a few run ins with social services myself and know they can be a total p.i.t.a. but sometimes they actually can help Get yourself a break, you'll be better for it, and so will Mic
Has there been a change in his behaviour Jeza, is he usually so abusive. If there has been a change it may be an idea to get the doc to check him out to see if there is an underlying cause eg an infection.
Contact Social Services and ask them to visit, if he is getting worse he may need re-assessing. You need to talk to them to see if you should be getting any other support.
Contact Social Services and ask them to visit, if he is getting worse he may need re-assessing. You need to talk to them to see if you should be getting any other support.
Respite was in the hospital for Fil where they were well used to this behaviour...he was cared for very well..and the breaks meant I was able to carry on for 4 years caring for him...or..he would have been put in home if I was unfit physically and mentally ...which is worse scenario ?...a wee break for you now and then or Mic in home permanently ....?
Jeza...if you choose carefully there are good homes.....we made sure Mum got into the one we wanted and we can't fault the care.
She is so well looked after...better than we could do no matter how we tried....
Give it some thought, please......I know you would take every care in choosing.....and in keeping tabs on Mic's care....
Gx
She is so well looked after...better than we could do no matter how we tried....
Give it some thought, please......I know you would take every care in choosing.....and in keeping tabs on Mic's care....
Gx