How Can I Get This Sagittarius Boy Back To Me?

[vuanhachoi]

I have a questions toward my Sagittarius boyfriend. I met him couple weeks ago, but I truly liked this guy. We hanged out and talked a lot to each other, every hours, even all night. However, for some reasons, he eventually stopped talking to me, and I didnt know what happened. He said he felt too forced because we became boyfriends (us both are gays :) ) even before we met. Then he even mentioned Im still a college kid and still bound to family (indeed, my Sagit man graduated from UF and is starting his first business at the age of 21), and he didnt think he could wait for few more years. He told me that he needed some space and time to think. Then I suggested that us both should started over from friendship bc I, too, felt forced to be boyfriends too early. Couple days after that, he started ignoring me on FB, even though we still talk while playing games together. But now he completely ignored me, and I think he doesnt want me anymore. I just posted on FB and told him that I will need space o think about what I need too, and I wont be back until I feel ready. So I came here to ask for your advice. Maybe he thought I was too clingy bc I couldnt wait for him when he was absent for so long :( Also, he said to me that I should not wait for him all the time but I was to stubborn and kept doing that :( What should I do to get him back to me? I love him so much bc he was so sweet to me and gave me meaning of living in this world.

[factor-fiction]

Winning back someone who left you is not an easy task. It’s not even an easy decision. So you don’t only think of ideas on how to get your Sagittarius partner back, you also have to figure out why they left in the first place and how to make them stay after.
REASONS. If your Sagittarius partner decided to end your relationship, chances are, they are feeling caged in. Sagittarians value their freedom. Once they feel the walls are closing in on them they will head for the door and won’t look back. Not saying this is the only thing that would make them walk. But it’s the biggest factor. Generally, Sagittarians can be impatient, wild, and are afraid of commitment. They are playful and flirtatious and if you voice out your concerns and let them know you feel insecure or jealous they will lose their interest. You have to have fun with them because all those flirting are just that, flirting. If a Sagittarius wants to end a relationship, they will tell you. If they don’t do that, there’s nothing to worry about.
This is the same as being clingy. Sagittarians are independent. Naturally, they will want their partners to be independent. Just like them. They will start feeling nervous and might even panic if all your decisions depend on what they want or what they need. If you think you should do this because you want to make them feel or to know they are important to you … STOP. If you’re deciding on something, whether it be big or small, just either make a decision first, tell them, and ask: “what do you think?” or “hey I’d like to get your opinion on this”. For them, getting their opinion is better than making them decide themselves. Also, since Sagittarius people are carefree, and yes sometimes careless, making them feel things rely on their decisions will be scary for them. They are independent people but looking after others can be strenuous if they’re not ready to do that.
GETTING A SAGITTARIUS PARTNER BACK. Stalking your Sagittarius ex and sending them countless of messages and gifts won’t bring them back. You can’t make it happen right away. So don’t push it. Be patient in planning and executing the things you should do. For one, act nonchalant about it. You don’t have to act like you don’t care. Just say you’re okay with it if he thinks it is best (even if you’re not). Offer to be friends with him/her. That way you won’t lose touch and will still know what’s going on even if you’re not together.
Now one of the most important things to do is to love yourself. It may sound cheesy but it’s the truth. Sagittarius people will not give importance to people who do not think of themselves as important. Be selfish if you must. It’s not always that bad. People in a relationship generally makes does things to please their partner. Just take time off to pamper yourself and do the things that you want and don’t think about what he wants or what he may think about it. You’re not in a relationship anymore so what he thinks should not matter, really.
Build up your confidence again. Chances are, you broke up because you were feeling insecure and he knows it. Sagittarius people are very attracted to confident women. He wants someone he can take with him anywhere and not worry that she might not fit it.
All of these boil down to defining yourself. Boost your self-worth, feel important and be important. Respect yourself. If you don’t do that no one will. Make them feel like it’s their loss and not yours. If you take care of your own needs, stop being clingy and start feeling attractive they will find you attractive again, they will look at you again and who knows, they might want a second change again. If it’s meant to be it will happen.

[buildersmate]

Bliley. That's a hell of a cut and paste. Where did you find it?

[factor-fiction]

If you are interested in this topic, buildersmate, it was from a link I found via this site which is the one I refer to most often on these matters.
http://www.compatible-astrology.com/sagittarius-man.html

If you Google the original question you may be surprised at how much stuff there is about this topic

[murraymints]

Move on !

[Old_Geezer]

If someone feels they need to break off a relationship you can't do anything to change their mind. No magic wand to wave that would work. What you can do is confirm you can be a pain and confirm their decision if you wish.

If they decide they miss the relationship the had and wish to renew it they will return by themselves. But it makes no sense waiting for that small possibility, one has to continue doing what one wants to get out of life and react to whatever happens as it comes.

[vuanhachoi]

Genereally, I just want to know if he isnt gonna ignore me and goes away.. he will come back to me :/ and what should I do now? :/

[Old_Geezer]

I refer you to my answer of the 15th.
Go get on with your life and stop moping about this one.

[boxtops]

He's not your boyfriend if you have only known him a couple of weeks, and his star sign, in this case, is irrelevant. What's the age difference between you, if you are still in college?

[vuanhachoi]

us both are 21.. he already graduated from University while Im still in college.. Im an immigrant and I started my college life so late (around 19 though).

[vuanhachoi]

@Old__Geezer I think you are right.. he now is like doesnt even know who I am.. he completely ignored me already..

[mariostewart62]

It is indeed too early to get in the relationship but if he has already said that he needs space then you should stop asking him again and again. You just drop one message that you too need space and you are desperately waiting only for him.